Been looking at redpill ideology for a bit, this is the one thing I dont get

Following rules is "feminine"? Not being able to do whatever you want is not masculine? Consequences for hurting people physically are bad?

I see this viewpoint primarily from Hamza but also a video from a guy in his subreddit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EBlvZv6mo68

It seems to be the same people who preach about starting a business and not being a slave in a 9-5, which I also criticize to some extent

Most of their viewpoints make some sense but I just don't understand this one as it feels like a borderline conspiracy theory