In the Red Pill Women subreddit they specified that it is recommended to get into a relationship only when you achieved a personal goal or healed from trauma.

This is understandable cause it could improve the way you engage in relationships.

Personally, I do have long term goals but getting into a relationship is not my priority. I still need to elaborate my past but I wish my journey into this life was not guided by this stupid doctrine. I do not follow it anymore, I don't interact with RPW online yet I link all my effort to it. These guiding steps get through my mind a lot and has an impact on my self-esteem.

It seems like I need to lock myself up or shut down any door to be able to talk to anyone. I strongly disagree in this ideology.