Prostitution

vb2509 · 2025-04-06T13:53:19+00:00

Not incel or RP (did formerly struggle with those thoughts) but I see it as a shortcut. I would rather learn how to attract a partner in my life than just pay money for it as a shortcut. Learn how to be patient if I have to wait it out.

I also want to do this with someone I really like romantically without constantly having to remind myself to keep emotions in control, not being afraid of falling in love with the person if I do. Prostitution does not meet that kind of need.

The same reason I as of now am not going ahead with a fwb situation (she offered to help me lose it knowing my dating struggles).

I see it as cheating or a shortcut that I will not really enjoy going through. I may not be a virgin after it but I won't exactly be happy about my first experience.

Soft-Neat8117 · 2025-04-06T17:55:09+00:00

It's considered cheating because people either see it as immoral or see it as "the easy way out" for undesirable men. Rather than improving their looks and/or personality to get laid the "right" way, they just threw money at the problem.

It "doesn't count" because the woman doesn't actually desire you. What they want is to be desired and no woman desires them. And that alone would make the sex unenjoyable for most.

I'll admit I'm considering it because I don't want to still be a virgin by the time I turn 30 this year, but I'm worried about getting arrested, catching a disease or just plain not enjoying the experience.

classicslayer · 2025-04-09T15:06:28+00:00

Because there is no validation in paying for it.

Title	Prostitution
Author	samof1994
Upvotes	5
Comments	4
Date	April 6, 2025 1:33 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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