This reaffirms my belief

TinyFlamingo2147 · 2025-12-10T13:25:35+00:00

This feels like a pretty basic issue of not thinking critically about the fact you're reading stuff on the Internet.

iostefini · 2025-12-10T13:37:17+00:00

there are plenty of cases where it does matter

Right, but also plenty of cases where it doesn't. Same as with every trait, really, some people will like it and some people won't and many don't care either way. Think about women with big breasts - some men like that, some prefer small, many don't care and just like whatever their partner has.

This also reaffirms that if a woman had a really big one she will likely not be interested in even average.

No it absolutely doesn't. Even if she lost interest because he was small, that doesn't mean she wants big. Some women do, but many do not. Literally no one in that post was saying "I only date men with big dicks" including the OP of the post.

You are looking for confirmation of what you already believe but you need to look at ALL the evidence, not just the evidence that supports the belief.

DarkMellie · 2025-12-10T13:21:33+00:00

This is a child’s belief. Some women is not the same as all women.

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Password-55 · 2025-12-10T14:49:34+00:00

Did not read the referenced post from a rando on the internet.

Who is talking about your penis?

Size does matter especially if your oral game, comminication and petting game is weak too. Then what do you have to offer? In terms of a relationship? Maybe pity sex?

It is not essential though as long as it gets in.

If you are just bad at everything in sex, then probably the sex will be bad.

Relaxing and just enjoying helps a lot. and not overthinking everything.

Some women care a lot about it, but maybe those are not the women that you should invest the most energy in.

I‘m also not trying to find friends that dislike my face the most. Seems like a foolish errand or not? Except you dislike yourself, then you go hang out with people that constantly put you down, because you think you deserve it. Maybe reflect on that if you do.

If you look for darkness it is all you ever find. Look for the light.

I have a bogger penis, but when not errect it looks small too. I was insecure about that too, but as soon as you find one person that‘s ok with you it‘s all I needed. And sex is not that important anymore, still important, but not that much.

AdComprehensive7939 · 2025-12-10T15:02:03+00:00

It seems like you're disregarding ample responses in that thread sharing that size isn't important and playing up the (immature and inexperienced) OP's confusion as validation of your fears. The denial of other perspectives seems willful.

Of course there are outliers, men and women, who care about such things as genital size or boob size etc. Those people are immature and to be avoided, in my experience. They're not the majority or even a strong minority, in my experience. Immature men care far more about their size relative to other men, not relative to a woman's perspective. The internet has an abundance of crap that can confirm anyone's fears and biases. And a ton of funded click-bait preying on yours. Go on over to the women's forums like X chromosomes, Womenover30 or Mommit and see exactly what women are concerned about. I guarantee you penis size is not even in the top 100 of posts.

Title	This reaffirms my belief
Author	Ambitious_Contact185
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Comments	11
Date	December 10, 2025 1:13 PM UTC (7 months ago)
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