I often feel lucky im in the average range

meleyys · 2026-03-19T12:54:23+00:00

Man, most women don't care much about dick size. It doesn't make any physical sense; the shallower part of the vaginal canal is more sensitive than the deeper part. Sure, size queens exist, but as a woman myself, I can't say I understand them. I've had dicks inside me ranging from smaller than average to larger than average, and it really doesn't matter that much, except that bigger requires more preparation or it just hurts.

WWhiMM · 2026-03-19T02:47:48+00:00

It's a prime example of "comparison is the thief of joy." Imagine you're actually mid-coitus but you can't enjoy it because you're stuck thinking about big dicks, what a nightmare. Plus you're for sure not your best if you're distracted like that. Even comparing your performance to a performance you gave some other night is gonna mess up your vibe.

It's so important to let go of the need for a hierarchy of everything and let yourself enjoy a good experience that's right in front of you. If she can't do the same, then that's sad for her.

MargaretRColeman · 2026-03-20T15:05:23+00:00

Women don't care. This is an issue of men competing with other men. It's a visual of "hey I'm a bigger man than you", it literally has nothing to do with women.

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culturedindividual · 2026-03-21T15:34:41+00:00

It doesn't even factor in until you're in the bedroom, and by that point a woman has already made up her mind about you. The only real concern is the extremes: being unusually small or unusually large. Everything upstream of that matters far more to attraction and selection: your height, personality, intelligence, ambition, how you carry yourself.

I say this as someone who's well-endowed. It doesn't translate into success with women. If anything, gay men place considerably more weight on it than heterosexual women do. There's also a recurring observation on r/bigdickproblems that many women struggle to accurately gauge the sizes of the penises they've been with ("girl inches"), which undercuts the idea that women are meaningfully selecting on this trait to begin with. It also raises the possibility that self-described "size queens" may simply be expressing a preference for something slightly above average, rather than anything genuinely large. This is exemplified by the fact that some men round up or outright lie about how big they are.

Average_Driver1475 · 2026-03-19T05:53:48+00:00

Imma tell you right now that that size stuff is gay. Gay AF.

I don't have anything against gay men. My religion prohibits gay sex, but I'm not doing it so whatever. But thinking about other men's dicks and the idea that bigger is always better is a male on male activity.

Does size matter? Yes.

So bigger is better? No.

It goes without saying that shoving a baseball bat into almost anyone's hole is nothing short of a violent assault that is meant to hurt and kill. So that size of a dick is clearly too big.

But it doesn't have to be that size to be too big.

Even 7-8 inches is a challenge for many shorter women. They can take it, but they might struggle to enjoy it, and if your partner isn't enjoying sex, that's a problem for both of you.

Off the cuff, I would say anything between 4.5 inches to 6.5 inches is a usable tool that will satisfy many women, if used correctly. So if you're in that range, you're good.

jdime666 · 2026-04-08T22:17:10+00:00

Guess what…. Most of the work is done without the penetration part buddy. Learn to make love. Dick size doesn’t matter.

Temporary_Client9353 · 2026-03-19T04:45:07+00:00

Vc se sente sortudo ao mesmo tempo em que se preocupa?

Title	I often feel lucky im in the average range
Author	Ambitious_Contact185
Upvotes	8
Comments	23
Date	March 19, 2026 2:28 AM UTC (4 months ago)
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