Met on Bumble in Taiwan.

First date: Food and boba

Second date: Badminton and food

After second date, her communication slowed down and she seemed less interested over chat. She sorta turned me down on two date ideas without suggesting another, but agreed to the third one. We also added each other on IG.

Third date: Food, dessert, and then sitting on a bench while she looked up apartments for me to stay in and I put my arm around her.

I then asked her to hang out again over the weekend and she said she was busy. Her IG responses to my messages still aren't very enthusiastic. I got the message and started setting up other dates with women who are more interested in me. I think the reason she lost interest is a particular coworker that she has mentioned a couple times to me. Also, she doesn't want to have kids / not sure, while I do, so I'm not even sure we are compatible.

Nevertheless, I say it's worth a shot to hang out with her again. One could argue that she's losing interest (which I agree with, I definitely no longer feel the energy from her, and I know I'm not her first option). On the other hand, I am progressing physically (albeit very little, lol). I'm hapa, she is Asian (and prefers white guys). Feel like in the future she's going to be a hapa mom.

Thanks for suggestions.