Women's Nature.

chofferblower · 2020-09-25T23:17:16+00:00

Okay. We actually observe behavioural differences between genders when looking on a societal scale. This differences include many things, from job preferences to hobbies to assertiveness to emotional intelligence, and the list goes on.

Here’s the thing tho. First those differences vary widely on how much wide spread they are. Job preferences for exemple, see very male (STEM) or female (child care) dominated fields, while let’s say visuo-spatial intelligence only vary slightly on average between genders.

Second, it’s extremely difficult to say if those differences originate from nature or nurture. As a boy, I played construction games A LOT between age 3 and 10, and I also spent a lot of time playing shooter games like Halo. Those are pretty male gendered hobbies that rely a lot on spatial thinking and planing. Maybe playing Lego led me to enjoy Halo, because I developed spatial intelligence which translated to spatial awareness and help me get those sweet wins online. Maybe I played Lego in the first place because, as a boy, I had a super spatial brain. Or maybe that’s just me having it. Or maybe not, maybe my mom bought me my first Lego set one Christmas because she had no clue what to buy and that’s the first thing she stumbled upon in the boys department of Toys’r’us. Maybe I actually have weak genetic dispositions to deal with spatial stuff, but because of xxxxh spent on training, I developed remarkable spatial awareness. Maybe the girl next door lived the opposite and would wreck my fucking ass on 1v1, but because she was gifted a barbie, the time I spent training my sombreros, she spent watching make-up tutorials. Of course this is all extremely caricatural and simplistic, but multiply the number of influences by multiple thousands and you’ll get the idea.

So ultimately... I’d say expect girls to be better with feelings than boys for exemple but don’t be surprised if it happens to be otherwise, for either gender. Some of the woman in my life are fierce warrioress who’d crush your mind and arguments with their rhetoric and unflinching rationality, and you’d rather not misjudge them based on the lipstick and hair extensions of some, while the most nurturing, emotional and empathetic person I know is a man. You won’t know until you give the person a go.

zoemondo · 2020-09-26T00:47:50+00:00

I think it's safe to say that all women need food, water, and shelter. Sleep, clothing, and contact with other humans is helpful too. Other than that, everyone is different.

snailsandstars · 2020-09-26T13:45:57+00:00

Honestly, why does it matter? Why do we need wide generalisations about women and their inner natures and whatnot? Why do we need an instruction manual to women before we can treat them as humans? Why must we refer to comparisons to monkeys or to prehistoric cavewomen or to the British housewives to predict the behaviour of fifty percent of the current population?

Women are humans, and that is that. Women and men are probably more similar than they are different, and there are probably more differences between women as a category than between the average man and the average woman. In a dating context, I think some "one size fits all", "this is how women work" type mentality isn't going to help anyone.

MrNeoCortex · 2020-09-28T05:34:06+00:00

In my opinion its VERY stupid to say women dont have a nature. Same goes for man. What about man being stonger? There is a complex system of hormones behind muscles development, wich also causes other behaviour such as agressiveness. Woman have different hormones wich cause different behaviour. You cant ignore the workings of the processes underlying consciousness. That would mean that humans have a 100% free will wich they dont...

Comfortable_Intern57 · 2020-09-26T04:02:19+00:00

Take a look at out closet genetic relatives, the bonobos and the chimps. Both are equally as close to us genetically, but there are stark differences in male and female behavior. The bonobo females have hidden fertility, like humans, for example. Bonobos have longer legs than chimps, similar to humans are well. The Bonobos are matriarchal and the Chimps are Patriarchal.

Female Bonobos have a very close bond with each other because they have sex with each other, so it's a bi-sexual species. This close bond means they will gang up on males who don't behave. Since they have a repressed fertility, no male can really know if their offspring is another males. Because of this, less babies are murdered by the males.

In Chimp society, the alpha male(s) get the females. If a subordinate male is caught mating with a female, they get aggressive and like I said, may even kill the offspring when she gives birth. Male Chimps even war with other tribes and kill off the males to take all the females.

Bonobos are peaceful. All males if chosen by a female can mate no matter what. Bonobos are very picky about their mates, whereas chimp females are either raped or approach the alpha males when in heat and it's hard to say if that is their real choice if really given an option.

War is primarily driven by sex and getting all the females and achieving high status. Back in the day when cities were conquered, the first thing they'd do is rape all the females. Though it also for getting resources, but what does that really boil down to.. Having higher status and getting more females at the end of the day. Whether men want to admit this or not, it's why they are instinctually more aggressive than women. It has and will always be about sex. Until we realize that and get over it, we'll never stop fucking fighting each other.

As for female behavior goes, I can tell you a few things. We are less aggressive and if left in charge, we'd do everything to prevent war. We want everyone to get along. We are picky by nature, but that's because we have a lot to lose if we choose the wrong mate (our baby gets eaten by an alpha male, our baby gets sick and dies, the baby doesn't go on to be successful in reproducing later, etc).

In other ape species, the females look for the stronger males to protect them for predators and other males who may try to rape them.

So this could be true for human females as well, but many of us learned that we need protecting from other males more than anything, including from the males who we trust as partners.

Society, upbringing, religion, gender stereotypes, personal experience and personality also all go in to shape female behavior as well. So at the end of the day, there are some underlying instinctual traits that women may have, but all women are different. Some reject societal norms and behaviors, others don't. Some shun of religious female roles while others don't. All personalities are different, etc.

Title	Women's Nature.
Author	RoseAvara
Upvotes	0
Comments	9
Date	September 25, 2020 10:39 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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