Background I am a 21 year old black cisgender black man who watched channels like mediocre tutorials and reviews, stephiscold, ams, and regrettably Fresh and Fit. I feel these channels are the embodiment of the patriarchal effects that the patriarchy has on men and I am sad that more and more young men are falling in like I did. I was watching these content creators who talked about women like just objects. Never seeing that why women dont take them seriously because of their misogynistic rhetoric they espouse along side the right leaning conservatism they push for in their anti feminist, anti gay anti trans and anti leftist rhetoric they push. But men who actually try to give them good advice or women trying to tell them why they dont like them, they are called simps or just lying or pandering to a feminist narrative. They also hold hypocritical standards for women like a woman who has more than one partner they are defective or unable to form emotional attachments with their partners, but advocate for men to build a rotation of women. They also complain about toxic masculinity while embodying what feminists are talking about when they say that phrase. I get why dudes watch these guys but in the end it does more harm than good to them. For a group of people who complain about women not taking accountability for their actions and complaining about the problems that effect men, they often say that women and feminism is at fault for destroying society, that the left controls every thing and that they are trying to destroy men. This is truly awful but I get why men are falling in. They have nowhere to turn to for positive male role models to go to, but instead of telling men that they need to actually look inward, get therapy, and heal. They just tell them to get a rotation of women, get in the gym, and find some way to get money. This is sicking but the thing is I dont see how I can help these guys man.