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[–]ScotsburdFDS Disciple78 points79 points80 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Better alone and successful than badly accompanied and broke.
[–]dalia-chanFDS Newbie33 points34 points35 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s why medias are fucked up by promoting struggle love the way they do while living in luxurious palaces. Lol. Still Remember this song of Justin Bieber when he sing “as long as you love me, we could be starving, we could be homeless, we could be broke” said the guy who married a model and Is living in a luxurious private area XD
[–]classylassy28FDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Some of the happiest women I know had their kids, left there husband's/husband left them and they are living their best life. They have tons of friends and activities they do (hard to keeps lots of friends in a marriage because your consumed with keeping husband happy) don't have to worry about cheating. Can literally do whatever the hell they want and have their beautiful babies. Many of them are doing 50/50 custody, so the men can't bitch about child support, they get to have a life, ect. It's awesome.
[–]notreal280037 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There’s scientific studies done on married men and women. Married men tend to be happier and healthier in life than their single peers. Married women tend to be less happy and less healthy than their single peers.
Makes you think.
[–]wowthispostissadFDS Newbie40 points41 points42 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I live my life like this. I live my life the way I see best for myself and only myself (I’m single without any children). If a great man comes into my life, I will he happy to be with him. If not, nbd because I’ve already been and will continue to live the life I want. Win either way.
[–]curlygirl507FDS Apprentice64 points65 points66 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
And sometimes you have to be your own king.
[–]moodystixFDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I'd rather be my own king than to be in a relationship, honestly.
[–]curlygirl507FDS Apprentice28 points29 points30 points 6 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
I really like this sub as a support group for women who've had to deal with shitty men, which is almost all of us, but this message about finding a HVM/king misses the point. If you're spending your life in search of a man, giving significant energy to the pursuit of a relationship with a man, you're still being controlled by the patriarchy. The message should be that you should build your own independent life that you love, if you happen to find a HVM then that's great, and you shouldn't put up with shitty behavior.
Besides, as we all know, there certainly aren't enough kings to go around.
[–]turquoisebluesFDS Disciple5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
👏🏻
[–]xlunarticx7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed! 👏
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[–]JuddHerpatowFDS Disciple22 points23 points24 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I needed to hear this tonight. Thank you.
[–]kcnitteFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For 2020 and beyond!!!!
[–]levelupcleverupFDS Disciple3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am feeling this. Not worried about any man in the least. Focused on improving my children’s lives, health, fitness, spiritual life, career, and money.
[–]heatf22FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I needed to hear this today. Thank you.
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[–]wowthispostissadFDS Newbie40 points41 points42 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]curlygirl507FDS Apprentice64 points65 points66 points (4 children) | Copy Link
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[–]JuddHerpatowFDS Disciple22 points23 points24 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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