After First Date vs 3 Weeks Later (feat. me being a pick-me double texter and bread-crumbing)... he has been ghosted :)

melissa_nine · 2020-02-28T09:48:15+00:00

This sounds like a little bit of love bombing. First date and that was his message?

Evil_Rao · 2020-02-28T10:35:48+00:00

Guy I was seeing did the same thing after a month, started to text less and acted like he was in control of the situation. I think this is why it's so important to spin plates, if you're dating multiple people you won't be at risk of getting attached too soon to any of them.

mydeepestinnerworks · 2020-02-28T12:26:04+00:00

Yep, typical lovebombing. Last guy started lovebombing me in the beginning, and I dropped him immediately after.

Lovebombing is a huge red flag.

VaporwaveVampire · 2020-02-28T08:01:26+00:00

Discovered this sub around a month ago and I’m super grateful! Also, for context, I have a pretty abusive household and he said I could talk about fun things on the phone with him before, so half a day before I sent the texts in the second screenshot, I asked him if I could talk on the phone for a bit and he said yes. Every text I sent in the second photo was read but just not responded to. Also, in the first pic, the original text was maybe 5x linger (no joke) but you get the gist :). I realized I was never attracted to this dude to begin with he was good looking I guess but idk. He goes to school and is getting his BA in business but he was super boring and even though he paid I still felt like the man in the relationship. He’s flimsy idk 😐

Kekekeke7777 · 2020-02-28T11:22:29+00:00

He needs to learn what a period is.

naenita_ · 2020-02-28T21:29:35+00:00

"Sorry I forgot" yeah right.

Title	After First Date vs 3 Weeks Later (feat. me being a pick-me double texter and bread-crumbing)... he has been ghosted :)
Author	VaporwaveVampire
Upvotes	38
Comments	12
Date	February 28, 2020 7:55 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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