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I waited a few minutes for his response before cartwheeling out of bed, grabbing some coffee, and hopping into the shower. As I was drying off, I saw two missed calls from him. Swoon. I love a morning after call. Good looking, intelligent, funny, AND thoughtful. He is the whole enchilada. Before I could hit ‘call back,’ the phone rang again. “Hey,” I said channeling my sexiest morning voice. I wonder if I should switch to Facetime. Too soon? That would be hot — me in my towel. Him in boxers? God — I hope he wears boxers. “How do you know Brad?” said the woman on the other end of the line.

The no photos thing is always a red flag. Even then, it’s quite likely his wife or girlfriend has no way to tell he’s on a dating site and oblivious.

Men like this are never single for long. In my experience if they’re telling the truth the ex will have moved on/he can prove it to you. Make sure you have proof!

Which why it’s so important you get to know a guy before you commit and make the leap. Make sure his stories check out. Meet his family and friends. Don’t be charmed by how perfect he is. And if it ever happens to you be like both the women in the story and support each other/have each other’s backs instead of the dirtbag who fooled both of them.