Can someone explain why BDSM is so accepted in mainstream media??

christmasforoutlaws · 2020-07-25T00:24:32+00:00

It's due to porn. Porn wasn't always so freely available. Men had to go and physically buy it. It used to be that only really fucked up men would consume porn like that. But then we got the internet and now suddenly every man can access it starting at a very young age. Some studies show that kids are getting hold of porn now at really young ages, like 10 or 11.

Now imagine what 8 to 10 years of regular consumption of porn does to a developing psyche. Eventually you have to start looking for more and more extreme stuff because the "regular" stuff isn't exciting anymore. BDSM is part of that escalation. So is all this incest shit.

jjlew922 · 2020-07-25T00:30:35+00:00

Here’s my theory...while the feminist movement liberated women in modern society, the introduction of easily accessible internet pornography in the 2000’s put everyone in a tailspin. Women’s rights took a turn towards: equal = the same as men. If we tune into our true feminine, the objectification in BDSM should disgust us. But we have aligned in modern society to show we can do and even like what men like (Pickme nation). Given men have a propensity to visual and sexual stimulation (testosterone), they will in adolescence be drawn to this readily available stimulus in porn as and early exposure indoctrinates young men to degrade and objectify women. It’s groups like FDS, with healthy female dialogue, where we can explore and share on these things!

daisy_0720 · 2020-07-25T13:02:16+00:00

Because apparently 'kinkshaming' is considered a worse offense than 'getting off to violently beating and strangling women'.

TERFSareawesome · 2020-07-25T01:13:47+00:00

Because a lot of men physically get off on violence towards women, ESPECIALLY psychopaths/sociopaths, who are way overrepresented in the top tier of business and wealth in this country and the world. The super wealthy are able to essentially fund whatever causes they like- think of Jeff Bezos buying the Washington Post and Carlos Slim buying the NYT. Those are probably the most famous newspapers in the world but think about the countless online publications and stuff. George Soros has admitted to giving hundreds of millions of dollars to various causes he wants to fund one of which is NAMBLA (national association of man/boy love- aka pedophilia normalization "charity") and transgender causes. These people also have an outsized influence in Hollywood. So they get to decide wht gets normalized (BDSM/sexualized violence towards women) and what gets frowned upon (biological sex matters) and slowly the sheep eat it up until what was once considered crazy is now the norm. Basically, rich men and money. Think of Epstein.

GrapeJuiceEnthusiast · 2020-07-25T13:21:53+00:00

Yeah I hate how everyone just focuses on the fact that the woman in the BDSM relationship consented. Like ok there are a lot of pick mes out there so I am willing to believe they consented. But WHY is nobody talking about the fact that there are men who get boners when their gf/wife dresses up as a baby and says gooh gooh gah gah??? I don't care if their partner consented. Something is seriously wrong with anyone who can get off on rape, pedophilia (this includes school girl stuff) etc.

Of course we can't say that because it's "kink shaming" and as we know kink shaming is the worst thing you can do in 2020, worse than sexually abusing women.

nr2596 · 2020-07-25T00:26:48+00:00

I blame fifty shades of grey for a lot of it. I don’t think it was always so acceptable in main stream media and pop culture. Most of the movies that depicted bdsm back in the day (like pre-2010) were small, niche, art house films not really targeted to the average person but then 50 shades came along and it was a blockbuster success. BDSM was then propelled into mainstream acceptance.

Title	Can someone explain why BDSM is so accepted in mainstream media??
Author	samina_
Upvotes	35
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Date	July 24, 2020 1:39 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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