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[–]Goddess422FDS Newbie199 points200 points201 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lol this is not admirable. If you have to remind him that he's replaceable this means you're expecting him to mistreat you. Why marry a man you expect will mistreat you?
[–]EclecticBarbarellaFDS Newbie81 points82 points83 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I watched my best friend marry a man that we all thought was a great guy (id known him for eight years and thought he would never do anything to her). Three months later, we found out he “has a sex addiction” and was visiting massage parlors. That solidified my opinion (whether right or wrong) that you can never truly know someone and if I do get married, it obviously wouldn’t be to someone I expect it from, apart from the fact that I try to remind myself that anyone can slip and fuck it up.
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[–]myousernameFDS Disciple12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Reversing the genders isn't enough. It doesn't take into account the power imbalance between men and women. We at FDS interact with the world not as it should be, but how it actually is.
Edit: Not sure why this is being downvoted, these concepts are literally from the Handbook. FDS is about maximum female benefit. It is irrelevant whether or not something is demeaning to men, so long as it is beneficial to women.
[–]adkinsm020-1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Could you iterate?
[–]Aurore11FDS Apprentice79 points80 points81 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I oppose this. We'd rightfully call this LVM behavior if a man wrote it. We should try not to stoop to red pill levels, where they bash something when a woman does it and praise it when a man does it.
I get this as a joke but if we're talking seriously, never enter a marriage if you don't mean it 100% and your husband doesn't mean it 100% too
[–]ny-ladyFDS Apprentice13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Frankly I dont see this as a thing to do, marriage is a big deal and vet like no tomorrow so you do it once or never.
I think vetting takes three years minimum. My experience, not all bad relations either, it just took that time to Really see everything. Wasn't bad but it wasn't for the long haul.
Sometimes two good people still dont work.
[–]beutifulstrangerThrowaway Account2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I always refer to my husband as "my starter husband" 🤣🤣🤣
Edit: we have a great relationship. I just find it funny to say that in front of him to get that coveted ::eyeroll::
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