Dating as a tattooed HVW?

2020-01-06T04:09:07+00:00

I have never had problems, but my tattoos are rarely visible. When someone compliments one when it is visible, I just take it the same way a girl says, "I like your dress!" If they're trying to hit on me, they should try something better than that. I say, " Thank you" and continue what I was doing.

throwawayshmoaway89 · 2020-01-06T04:17:57+00:00

I think part of being a HVW means looking however you want and not caring what men think or might say. If anything it's a good filter. I love my tattoos and plan on getting more, so it's a dealbreaker if someone doesnt like them.

jalapenopancakes · 2020-01-06T05:04:38+00:00

My high value husband has full sleeves. I don’t have a single tattoo. I guess it really depends on the person. 🤷‍♀️

nartuhli · 2020-01-06T04:01:36+00:00

My tattoos haven’t made much of a difference in my dating life, but I do live in a city where tattoos are pretty normal and accepted. Funny thing is though, before I had tattoos, I attracted guys with tattoos. Now that I have tattoos, I seem to attract guys without tattoos! 🤷🏻‍♀️

daglowup · 2020-01-06T03:56:33+00:00

Date a guy with tattoos! The non-loser ones though.

velocity2ds · 2020-01-06T06:16:33+00:00

I have 7 tattoos (mostly hidden depending on clothing) and usually it’s just seen as a sexy thing by guys I’ve been with. I think if you get that tattoo it’ll be fine and tbh you’re more at risk at heavily tattooed guys being condescending and putting down women for their choice in tattoos. Fuck those guys and their unnecessary opinions in general

My first tattoo artist was w a guy and I just rmbr him bemoaning about the trends in women’s tattoos as if guys don’t have their own tattoo trends (“tribal” on bicep, something giant on chest, something big on back on calf). Then my next tattoo artist was a woman and she really showed me how fucked that first tattoo artist was like I realized he touched my leg for so much longer than necessary when putting the products on and how him “complimenting” my skin for being soft was not appropriate.

Parking-Act · 2020-01-06T03:59:53+00:00

I'm going to get the one I have removed to increase my percieved value and to avoid all the cringy social interactions I get from it.

I don't regret it, though. Do what you want. You can always get it removed later

suaveagave · 2020-01-06T04:49:51+00:00

I get a lot of guys who say they like my tattoos, but I think I just have good taste lol. I always make sure the designs are ones that will age well (like is this something I’d enjoy having on my body when I’m geriatric??) and they all have a story behind them or mean something to me (which are also great conversation starters). I’ve also fronted some serious cash to get them done by amazing artists. If it’s a tattoo, spending the extra money is almost always worth it.

Title	Dating as a tattooed HVW?
Author	Parking-Act
Upvotes	8
Comments	12
Date	January 6, 2020 3:42 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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