Don’t ever accept threesomes. Ever.

ino_y · 2019-10-30T07:05:45+00:00

Men : hoes these days aint loyal

Also men : following 5,000 women on snapchat, instagram, facebook. subscribed to pornhub. paying camgirls. ducking off to the bathroom while you're waiting in bed.

CoolMelonade · 2019-10-30T05:27:17+00:00

Yeah honestly some of my lesbian friends hate women who do things like this because they quote “lick pussy like they’re licking a battery” because they don’t actually want to be there

sojourner_truth_ · 2019-10-30T08:48:11+00:00

This is good advice. It's a well known phenomenon that men will ask a woman for all kinds of bizarre kinky sex, but he is much less inclined to ask her for her hand in marriage after she degrades herself for him.

I'd be especially concerned with guys who ask you to indulge him in shame based kinks, or men who get off on humiliation. Those guys need to be looked into, because it's not so rare for him to have a "vanilla" woman as his public partner and then go behind her back to do all kinds of depraved sex acts with his "side chick". If he's asking you to do whatever gross stuff, it's possible he has mentally categorized you as not being a high value woman who he would consider for marriage.

Even if he does consider you marriageable, would you consider a pornsick guy who's already pushing you to do things you're not comfortable with as a marriageable man? Kinks get stronger, weirder, and more out of control the more you feed into them- kinda like addictions.

s_slayer · 2019-10-30T11:56:46+00:00

This was my ex. I was so disappointed when he said he had researched swingers clubs in Vegas. He said none of the guys were good looking enough. I don’t get it - he wanted to see a hot guy fuck his wife? I will never understand men.

His long standing fantasy was seeing me with another woman. That never happened. I’m really loyal and the thought never crossed my mind to have threesomes. He’s remarried to a woman who gives him constant grief and I’m single and happy so there’s that. He was pornsick from the day I met him. It’s a real thing. A big reason why I’m happy being single.

fehduhp · 2019-10-31T01:00:10+00:00

Oh man. My favorite text exchange ever with my ex went like this.

Him: Threesome? Me: What? Him: Who am I kidding. You don't share. Me: I have one rule. It has to be two men first. Him: Never! Forget it! Me: See? Works every time.

I share this and laugh every time it comes up on facebook.

Loiacono3137 · 2019-10-30T15:22:47+00:00

Agreed

A lot of times women do it to please their men I doubt most want to do 3somes.

I told my current guy a 3some isn’t happening

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PutItInReverse · 2019-10-30T11:02:44+00:00

Don’t accept a threesome thinking it will make him like you more or strengthen the relationship if 1) he doesn’t already respect you and 2) you aren’t truly into the idea of a 3some.

Speaking as someone involved in the kink community, but who isn’t into cuckholding or group sex: Cucking is typically a specific type of MMF dynamic with one man being sexually submissive to a woman. They have brought in another man into the mix who is perceived as more sexually dominant than the 1st guy. Sometimes there are racial undertones to this. Often has “forced bi” elements where the sub guy will lick the dominant guy’s ejaculate out of a woman’s vag. 😐

3somes can have different dynamics and incorporate different things depending on who is involved, it’s not all cucking. Still, that doesn’t mean you have to try or like group sex if that’s not what you want at all. Many men who watch cucking vids online say to their female partners that they want to try cuckholding and see their girlfriend or wife sleep with another man in front of them. But then later they get mad and slut shame her when she actually goes through with it. It’s a fantasy for many of them that they cannot handle coming to fruition.

jessicaslovely · 2019-10-30T17:58:50+00:00

PREACH AND FACTS

jennydb · 2019-10-30T08:36:50+00:00

I’ve had two threesomes and both were great. But none were with a love partner, all casual.

Title	Don’t ever accept threesomes. Ever.
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Date	October 30, 2019 4:02 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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