Don't let these men push for drink dates lol, its so obvious what their game is. Do they think we're born yesterday??

After my disaster bar date this week with the'male feminist', which I stayed pretty much sober for, I am point blank refusing this. Its easier for them to pull the 'take turns', 'you get this round'...rather than a sit down meal. And then you can expect that on every date ever.

I've had 2 this week tryna plan a fun 'night out' drink date - mmm no thanks. With me being a huge 0-100 lightweight that rarely drinks anymore, this is NOT a good idea lol.

You need to keep your head on straight and have your best super feminine girl next door persona going on (yeah you know the one, ease them in before the feminist comes out). If you have too many vodkas and start grinding all on his groin on the dancefloor- you know that's gonna turn left super quick. He knows this, which is why he wants to get you drunk.

Lie, say you're not a big drinker, say you're on antibiotics, say you have a hangover from lastnight, say your dad died from alcohol poisoning (ok maybe not the last one).

If he springs it on you or something with 'I know this great bar!', say 'Oooh you know what I'm kinda hungry and I need to line my stomache first',I know this great place..'. That's nice and innocent, and he should oblige. Remember he's there to impress you, and if he's already tryna cheapskate & pressing you to 'party', you know what it is.