You all saved me today because I asked myself what would they do? And it was, Dump the Mother Fucker! A man can be close to perfection for 6 weeks, impressing you, your friends, family. And then, WHAM. Out of nowhere he was mean about my looks and controlling about what I should do to fix how I look. This morning I knew there would be no apologies and that's fine because I already knew what I needed to do. Dump him. because first it's a small thing like my hair color but next it'll be who my friends are or hobbies, etc. Here's some wisdom i will throw out, the first 6 months should be glorious, it should be perfect. It's never ever going to be better than the honeymoon stage. If a man starts slinging that kind of shit at you that early on (or ever), RUN.