Lately I met a guy and we clicked pretty well. We started talking every day and I noticed that things are going too fast (with all flirting). I really became interested in him and realised I need to slow down. So, I read somewhere that I should save his name as not his name so my brain will react to him in other ways. I saved him as Lily (a female name). And at first I didn't see the difference. But with every day I was getting more distant, I wasn't that fascinated with him anymore, I noticed he is not a HVM for sure. And well, I totally forgot about him. Yesterday he just sent me a text saying "what has changed between us?? We started so well and out of blue you got so distant and started ignoring me for no reason, what's wrong with you??". The whole text was so pathetic that it only proved me that I made a right decision, and blocked him right after. So, ladies...if you see that everything is rushing too fast.. Step back a little, get perspective! And try this thing with a nickname. I stopped treating him like a manly man who is fun to talk to, and started seeing him as a girly gossip girl who,yeah is fun to talk to, but im not interested in her at all. Goodluck!:)