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[–]RussianAssholeFDS Disciple[🍰] 11 points12 points13 points (1 child) | Copy Link
I bet they skipped over the “being nice and offering men domestic servitude doesn’t work and only gets you used like a booger laden tissue” part 😂
[–]THE_ANGRY_SHARTERFDS STRATEGY COACH[S] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh no. That part was not glossed over at ALL. That exact point was actually made.
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[–]madandunabashedFDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
I think the idea is getting women to work against the harmful behaviors that were socialized in us. Being overly kind, accepting, not setting firm boundaries, etc. I haven't read the book but I imagine that's what they mean by being a bitch - because a woman who stands up for herself and shows self confidence is often called a bitch.
I also think you're being overly optimistic about human nature. We tend to want what we can't have. Just think of all the men and women who let themselves be strung along by men or women that act hot and cold. Acting like a bitch means keeping a man on his toes and not letting him take you for granted.
[–]GlamGemini5 points6 points7 points (2 children) | Copy Link
It was me who started the thread over in RPW - think I need to hang out in here more 🙂
[–]THE_ANGRY_SHARTERFDS STRATEGY COACH[S] 4 points5 points6 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes you do. This is my favorite subreddit 😁😆
[–]GlamGemini1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Just discovered it 😀
[–]TalulaRouge1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
"Why is it that men really do seem to love bitchy women?"
Ah. The question every dominatrix asks herself. There really is just a set of men out there who like women who are either a.) a little cold/coquette, b.)aggressive, or c.) really want a woman to tell them what to do and to dominate them. Most of the time, they have complex relationships with their mothers. (At least, in my experience.)
[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I've listened to the audio book and I agree with a lot.
[–]soxychamp2 points [recovered] | Copy Link
So glad that people are catching on don’t love women like you! That book and why Men Marry Bitches are bible-like to me. They changed my life