My friends can hookup with a guy with no issues. And the fellas don’t always use condoms. I have a phobia of pregnancies and STIs. I am sterile so that helps but I wasn’t planning on telling a fella unless he and I were serious then maybe. But how can I get over this hump? I have had guys get tested first and then we would bang and even during oral they wore a condom until we were exclusive (then no condom for oral and admittedly we were risky and did the pull out method) (I have since wised up). What are your thoughts? Lets hear them.