He ghosted me and I have one question

applestorm · 2020-06-30T05:02:51+00:00

BLOCK. HIM.

He has ghosted you twice already, he's going to ghost you until you finally block him for good and he can't creep back. If he truly wanted you, he would fight hard to have you, not play some shitty push and pull mind games (which he's clearly doing, make no mistake) so you'll put up with everything he wants to do to you (spoiler: it's abusive shit).

This is incel TRP tactic, run away unless you're willing to bend backwards so he uses you up and then throws you away once he's done with you.

2340000 · 2020-06-30T05:52:09+00:00

Girl, you first need to understand why you are trying to teach him a lesson. We can give you all the advice in the world, but until you acknowledge why you "want him to think you give no fu××" when you could actually give no fu×××🤔

Aside from that, block him.

ChristmasPriestess · 2020-06-30T05:44:46+00:00

I agree with the other ladies! He's ghosted you twice and now, my favorite term, zombied you (which is when they ghost and contact you later down the road). If he was interested in you then he would pursue you and not ghost you. Block his ass and stop wasting your time on him. He wants you for an ego boost and nothing more.

sweatydeath · 2020-06-30T04:56:33+00:00

#3 all the way

LateNightLattes01 · 2020-06-30T10:35:09+00:00

There’s a reason the phrase is: “fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me.”
If he did it once he will do it a million times over because he doesn’t really care and doesn’t really want you. He’s toying with you. It’s sick but the truth unfortunately.
The fact that he’s done this TWICE already- fuck that he’s a bastard. He genuinely isn’t worth your time. He’s worthless and a jerk try and internalize that. BLOCK. HIM.

FurryBellyButt0n · 2020-06-30T19:43:47+00:00

Why do you feel compelled for his attention and validation before blocking him? It is not going to change the fact that he choose to ghost you two times and he purposely did this to prove that you do not matter in his life.

Putting energy into a person who is demonstrating your existence does not matter by manipulatively ignoring you until he wants something will not lift you up.

The best may for him to understand that you give no fucks about him is by blocking him and never reaching out to him again. He wants you to reach out and get an ego stroke. Take your dignity and go.

Neorago · 2020-06-30T18:31:38+00:00

3. It's the only option that puts yourself and your sanity first. If you do #1 or #2 you'll just be waiting until he messages you and waiting to see his reaction. The best reaction is to do what benefits YOU most and not what has the most impact on him.

edit woah. dunno why it bolded there lol.

Title	He ghosted me and I have one question
Author	paolaaaaa5
Upvotes	27
Comments	11
Date	June 30, 2020 4:01 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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3. It's the only option that puts yourself and your sanity first. If you do #1 or #2 you'll just be waiting until he messages you and waiting to see his reaction. The best reaction is to do what benefits YOU most and not what has the most impact on him.