He would be ready for a relationship with someone he thought he couldn’t replace. Don’t settle for half-relationships and non-committal man-boys

amiranda00 · 2019-10-17T01:13:10+00:00

This hurt my soul. But so true...

stillcantsee · 2019-10-17T05:02:33+00:00

Keep reminding myself of this when my clown ass gets lonely and horny and wants to reach out and be “friends” with a man who did exactly this to me. He wanted to keep things casual and THANK GOD I never slept with him. I’d be a fool to set myself up for rejection AGAIN.

AnniaT · 2019-10-17T10:34:06+00:00

When a man says "I don't want a relationship" either with those words or similar or actions that point to that, I always add the "with you" in my mind. If you do that it'll save you the pain of seeing him in an actual relationship with someone he really wants 5 seconds after he's said he doesn't want a relationship. Stop making excuses and don't settle for mixed signals and lukewarm interest.

kapac · 2019-10-17T03:27:45+00:00

Lmao this my line tho 😅

Soulfireexo · 2019-10-17T08:15:19+00:00

My bs ex pulled this off after 7 years and being engaged for 2 of those years. ( talking to other women and got caught at the end ) This was one of many bs excuses he used. My guess is he had someone else lined up already before he moved out. Now I’m angry again and wana toss eggs at him lol

sarahlala123 · 2019-10-17T09:08:50+00:00

Or if the person keeps ghosting you don’t do it to yourself, he ain’t it.

Kkykkx · 2019-10-17T07:26:29+00:00

I was married to a wonderful man for 23 years and we raised two beautiful children together. He fell sick to mental illness after a series of stress related incidents at work. Long story but he ended up in a mental hospital, had crazy manic episodes and eventually left me. When we married ‘for better or worse, in sickness and in health....’ I thought of physical ailments. I was not prepared for mental illness. Almost went crazy myself trying to deal with the fallout. 😞😔

harrohamtaro · 2019-10-17T11:21:02+00:00

This is very true. But I still have no idea how to deal with the awful feeling of not being good enough. I feel upset thinking about why he could be in a relationship with another girl, but not me.

AnniaT · 2019-10-17T06:22:11+00:00

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Gingerfix · 2019-10-17T15:22:21+00:00

I just want to make a statement that casual sex is okay.

The statement this woman makes is pretty damn true, but let’s not shame people for wanting sex and having sex but not getting into a relationship over it.

But guys that imply things will go further but then drop the “I’m not ready for a relationship right now” and act like at some point they’re going to be ready so just keep things the same way they’re going - that’s annoying.

lilhapaa · 2019-10-17T03:30:41+00:00

I definitely don’t agree. You can genuinely just not want a relationship, or not have the time to put into one, etc.

kittenxsnow · 2019-10-17T17:25:29+00:00

Ugh this is too real. An ex of mine (who I foolishly remained friends with after he blew off our relationship because I’m a mom) recently texted me to let me know how happy he is in his brand new relationship and is hoping to move her into his house soon. Which is funny because about a month ago he was texting me super disgusting and unwanted sexual messages. I can’t imagine being such a pathetic mix of petty and desperate.

sweatydeath · 2019-10-17T05:30:41+00:00

TRUTH. There’s no way to sugar coat this

sisiark · 2019-10-17T04:01:30+00:00

OUCHhbsbsb its true but this hit

hamclan · 2019-10-27T12:23:23+00:00

OH MY FUCK I A POWERFUL GREAT WOMAN JUST GOT REJECTED IN A POLITE WAY IM GONNA GO CRY.

darlingdeer9 · 2019-10-17T07:07:13+00:00

I am genuinely shook.

Title	He would be ready for a relationship with someone he thought he couldn’t replace. Don’t settle for half-relationships and non-committal man-boys
Author	Katelyn89
Upvotes	1079
Comments	42
Date	October 16, 2019 11:15 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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