Guys, I've been feeling a little down lately.

I had a pretty traumatic dating experience online in October. I was job searching so did not have much time to date, and finally got a new job and went back on the scene. I was talking to a guy online who was persistent about meeting up, so we finally met up for drinks. In retrospect, he was charming, good looking, but low effort (I was too blind to see at that time and had not joined this channel). He did throw in some negs at one date, which again I did not read into, calling my new job "fluffy." During the second date he revealed quite a bit to me, particularly, that he had a tough childhood by getting intro trouble (but did not go to specifics), that he does not like his job or where he lives. He also said, you seem independent (etc). After the third date we were supposed to go out somewhere but he left plans vague...we ended up cooking at his place and he tried to have sex with me (without a condom). After that, he made no attempt to contact me and ghosted me. I never reached out to him after, I didnt want to show that his actions hurt me, but it did. I sometimes try to get revenge, but feel like that won't get me far. I checked that he got a new job at a good company ( my old company actually). I am just pissed that good things happen to people with such low integrity...

Should I get revenge? Just really unhappy at the moment....