Hmmm...🤔

BrooklynBabe33 · 2020-11-10T14:40:35+00:00

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love-starved-beast · 2020-11-10T20:56:15+00:00

To say that straight men are heterosexual is only to say that they engage in sex (fucking exclusively with the other sex, i.e. women). All or almost all of that which pertains to love, most straight men reserve exclusively for other men. The people whom they admire, respect, adore, revere, honor, whom they imitate, idolize and form profound attachments to, whom they are willing to teach and from whom they are willing to learn and whose respect, admiration, recognition, honor, reverence and love they desire... those are, overwhelmingly, other men.

In their relations with women, what passes for respect is kindness, generosity or paternalism; what passes for honor is removal to the pedestal. From women they want devotion, service and sex.

Heterosexual male culture is homoerotic; it is man-loving.

—Marilyn Frye, The Politics of Reality

Tell-Me-Whyy · 2020-11-10T14:25:00+00:00

Well they usually treat men better than women so why not

2020-11-10T15:08:58+00:00

If men like this could leave us alone early on, that'd be great.

sstena · 2020-11-10T15:20:10+00:00

So true. This doesn't even have to be about gay men. There was a post about how (hetero) men only admire other men, never a woman, because they are only capable of actual love for other men.

They may feel attachment to, experience occasional tenderness for, feel sexual attraction to women. But that kind of "love" is not the genuine love (sacrifice, admiration, commitment) they are able to show to other men.

Even when guys aren't able to be "soft" with other guys, they will use women to express that side of them, not actually build a loving relationship with her. He'll use her as a therapist and then go back to the men he actually loves.

supremelyparanoid · 2020-11-11T02:25:01+00:00

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Street_Narwhal_3361 · 2020-11-10T14:21:41+00:00

Is this satire? I don’t speak dusty.

aquietsword · 2020-11-11T05:15:27+00:00

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trekMT7900 · 2020-11-11T02:45:34+00:00

I feel so ashamed to admit that it took me 9 years to realize this about my ex husband. 9 years He sees his soul mate everyday in the mirror. He would do anything for that guy.

2020-11-11T01:03:51+00:00

Oh yea. The most homophobic places have high violence against women.

2020-11-11T21:44:18+00:00

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balladwilds · 2020-11-11T00:49:48+00:00

he would treat other men like shit too bc the issue lies within him 🙄

Kristeninmyskin · 2020-11-10T14:38:13+00:00

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Auroraalucreziaa · 2020-11-11T14:18:37+00:00

You’ll find this Reddit post interesting https://www.reddit.com/r/wgtow/comments/7dxty2/heterosexual_male_culture_is_homoerotic/?utm_source=amp&utm_medium=&utm_content=post_body

Title	Hmmm...🤔
Author	BrooklynBabe33
Upvotes	282
Comments	29
Date	November 10, 2020 2:18 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/jrlpt7/hmmm/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/hmmm.324562 https://theredarchive.com/post/324562

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