HVW?

OpenCelebration3 · 2020-11-06T07:01:19+00:00

Ughhh everything was great until he added that one line ...whyyyy 😩

Partypuppers · 2020-11-06T16:52:31+00:00

I hate it when men talk like this. If you don't want me to tolerate BS then don't bring the BS to the relationship. Don't pretend that you'll only respect me if I put up resistance to you, while knowing FULL WELL what you're doing is not ok.

I don't want to constantly be on my toes, anxiety ridden, making sure I'm putting you in your place in order to gain a modicum of respect from you. That sounds exhausting.

I want a love where respect is a naturally assumed foundation of a healthy relationship, where we don't try to BS each other but work together, as a team, against the difficulties that life may throw at us.

Women don't need to tolerate men stressing them out with their BS and writing dedications in books as some sort of grand gesture of apology or love bombing, which is what this smacks of, to me at least.

2020-11-06T14:40:12+00:00

I thought it was a bitchin self-dedication until I read the comments. Heh

JiltedGroupie · 2020-11-06T13:55:19+00:00

Tolerate BS? No thanks

Title	HVW?
Author	alchemisttrilogy
Upvotes	214
Comments	12
Date	November 6, 2020 4:32 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/joygvd/hvw/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/hvw.1193707 https://theredarchive.com/post/1193707

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