I feel stupid

2019-12-10T16:51:42+00:00

Don’t take it personally. He just didn’t like you like that and that’s fine. Doesn’t mean there’s something inherently wrong with you just means you’re not his type for whatever reason.

whoooocarez · 2019-12-10T16:48:55+00:00

It sucks when you like someone and they like you, too - but not as much as you like them. Develop an inner sense and knowing of self-worth, engage in activities that make you feel good, and remember that your value is not determined by others. Ever. At all.

themissdaydreamer · 2019-12-10T19:18:07+00:00

whenever a guy says 'I dont want a relationship right now' is means 'I don't want a relationship with you'.

ManchurianCantaloupe · 2019-12-10T16:46:30+00:00

Try to get out of the mindset that this says anything about you. It doesn't. It says everything about who he is as a person.

You dodged a bullet. Who wants to date a man so weak he can't even be honest with you? Now his slimy ass is someone else's problem.

PlatyupsCommittee · 2019-12-10T18:24:42+00:00

Is this dude literally God? No? He's just a random person?

In that case, there's no reason to believe this says anything about you. If anything, he's the one who earned some judgment. He was a weenie who pretended to be interested when he really wasn't. How a cowardly, misleading weenie assesses you definitely should not be taken seriously.

ontherailstoday · 2019-12-10T18:36:57+00:00

You have no idea why. Maybe you remind him a little of some other important woman in his life and that's just too weird. Maybe he wasn't ready at the time then had an epiphany and didn't feel he could really go back and ask after rejecting you. Maybe he's got some odd specific fetish like huge feet and you're everything he needs but not that one thing. You just don't know. Just relax and accept it is probably not about your quality, it is about his specific needs.

harrohamtaro · 2019-12-10T18:46:32+00:00

There are a million reasons why he pulled this shit, but that’s his problem. You have been brave and gave this your best shot and it’s meant to be that your efforts aren’t wasted on this LVM who doesn’t even walk his talk.

Title	I feel stupid
Author	babe__ruthless
Upvotes	8
Comments	10
Date	December 10, 2019 4:30 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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