I need some advice

purasangria · 2020-02-16T22:20:41+00:00

He's searching for "greener pastures," and will use the "break" as an excuse to fuck other women.

If he needs a break, then give him one. Make it PERMANENT. 🔥

DUMPHISASS2020

Ms_Tilly · 2020-02-16T22:15:29+00:00

DumpHisAss2020

AyemHerself · 2020-02-16T22:28:19+00:00

Two possible scenarios here:

He wants to be free from relationship obligations for a while to pursue other options, but wants to keep you on the back burner in case those other options don't pan out. Harder to do if he dumps you outright. He may also want to keep you on the hook in the meantime for emotional support.
He wants to break up, but doesn't want to be the bad guy, so he'll slow fade until you get fed up and dump him. Bonus: he can then use the breakup to get sympathy.

MidnightCarp · 2020-02-16T23:04:50+00:00

Yeah, there's no clearer dump his ass signal than him needing "space" to evaluate whether you're good enough for him.

Even if he decides to not break up, if you stay with him, you will always know that's exactly where you stand in his eyes: just barely good enough to keep going, not someone he was actually so crazy about that he didn't need to question his feelings.

Block him right away and find the person who sees your value with zero doubts and thinks you're irresistible. This is the most dignified option too, you don't need to wait around for him to dump you when you can choose to drop him yourself.

Kekekeke7777 · 2020-02-17T02:41:37+00:00

He wants to sleep (or try to) with someone else and guarantee ahead of time that he’ll have you back when he’s done sleeping with the other person (people)/if he can’t find anyone else who will. He wants out? Give it to him.

ghygdryhchmmmmjj · 2020-02-17T04:45:07+00:00

Hes not afraid of losing you. At all. You deserve better. Leave him.

Title	I need some advice
Author	justforfuniamfunny
Upvotes	13
Comments	7
Date	February 16, 2020 9:56 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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