If you're an immigrant, don't date men that shit on their own country's women.

Pizza-n-Lice · 2019-12-04T23:14:27+00:00

The amount of times I have had guys insult Irish women to me is crazy. They think eastern European women will be more subservient and think I will be flattered by them insulting their own women. He is angry they expect him to reach out first and to pay for the date. The women are expecting respect and good treatment so they opt for women from more patriarchal countries. They won't respect you or treat you well, they just want a better servant.

Saitschik · 2019-12-04T23:29:43+00:00

I sometimes wonder why Eastern European women marry those slobs and play the traditional wife for them. Cultural brainwashing and pressure on women to get married is strong, but Is an average salary and the wife title really worth wasting your life with "taking care" of an entitled Western manchild?

Yes, life can be hard in Eastern Europe I know it firsthand and the men are no glory in EE either. But I would still prefer it anytime over being married to this type of Western men. They disgust me.

Whenever I am on a date with a man and he starts to shit on the women in his country because they are "too feminist" or "dont take good care of themselves" I know immediately there will be no next date.

Ms_Tilly · 2019-12-04T23:27:28+00:00

I went out with a guy from Ukraine once. He spent a lot of time telling me how beautiful and wonderful Ukrainian women are. Yeah, I'm not even Eastern European at all lol. No second date.

GCchick · 2019-12-04T23:22:05+00:00

I'd even generalise and say it's a bad sign any time a man puts down any kind of women. It's fine for a guy to compare a little and say "hey, french women are more like this. Italian women are more like that". But to say "X women are trash" is always a redflag. There's a difference between the two.

Good guys never need to denigrate any kind of woman, I find. Guys with grudges are never good news.

2019-12-04T23:27:41+00:00

Thank goodness the Irish women dont have this tool in their dating pool anymore.

izblaka · 2019-12-05T09:13:38+00:00

As a polish women living in ireland this dudes comment infuriates me. Assuming polish women are somehow less demanding or require lesser men is insulting. Speaking on my own behalf and my felow polish girlfiends nope we are not a doormats and won't settle for low quality men. ( nearly choked on my coffe here at work when I seen this post first ) just extra two cents this divide and conquer attitude of men is laughable like commenting you are not like other women and expect us to think its a compliment. As a women we should stick together and call out this builshit

TheDeadlyBeauty · 2019-12-05T03:08:54+00:00

Eastern European women are gonna be the new "asian waifus" for misogynistic men who cant handle women with self esteem.

Vespe50 · 2019-12-05T06:50:42+00:00

As italian, this totally true!

Title	If you're an immigrant, don't date men that shit on their own country's women.
Author	Pizza-n-Lice
Upvotes	101
Comments	32
Date	December 4, 2019 11:13 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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