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Women are still raised to think the ultimate goal in life is to be a good wife and mother. A few lucky women find a HV man but most will not. One of the reasons for this is that most men are not taught valuable life skills like how to be good life partner and parent. They also don't have this pressure and expectation of getting married and having children within a certain amount of time put on them whereas women do despite both genders fertility window being relatively the same. Women on the other hand are not taught how to vet undesirable men out of their dating pool. Too many women end up with undesirable partners, married or stuck in a forever girlfriend situationship because of this.

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There are some popular sayings in a male dominated community that I am going to dispute.

She slept with all the alpha guys when she was in her 20s then settled for the betta when she hit her 30s.

Correction, women date jerks in their youth because; That is mostly what is around her and give them "chances" to prove themselves. They are taught men being jerks is normal male behavior. Or, they do not have the tools to vet abusive men out of their dating pool. Luckily she found a decent man at all because most women don't.

Here at FDS we don’t cater to shitty abusive misogynistic douchbags. Here at FDS we give women in the prime of their life the tools to vet unworthy men out of their dating pool IMMEDIATLY so they don't have to go through this kind of pain and suffering. Do you want your daughter to be abused, used and suffer? Or be treated with love and respect? Someday maybe we can have a better society and there will be no chances given to shitty men AT ALL.

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I want a woman that isn't damaged or broken.

I don't want a world full of damaged or broken women either but here we fucking are. Who the fuck is doing the damaging and breaking? MEN. Stop damaging women and asking why we are so angry and hurt. Call out your bros. #TooManyMen only care about women is when it effects them so say "hey bro stop hurting women because someday I want a wife that isn't suffering from PTSD." BE A BETTER MAN. Stop being a problem and be a solution to the fucking problem, like a FUCKING MAN. Take responsibly for the part you have played in breaking and damaging other human beings like a real man would. Make the world a better place for everyone.

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You could be a genuinely kind and empathetic man reading this, maybe you are genuinely HV. Maybe you want to provide for a woman and have a family someday, or have one already. This hurts you too and I will explain why.

Starting at childhood, #TooManyWomen are broken down by society into accepting abusive behavior from men as normal, while seeing nice, kind, and empathetic behavior as abnormal. She will hear "he is just joking" when he emotionally abuses her. To "communicate" when he hurts her instead of just walking the fuck away from the relationship. Incompetence in men is framed as cute and quirky instead of what it is, a fucking dealbreaker. Obsessive porn use is promoted as liberating, and completely normal. Abusive sex and BDSM is expected despite what the woman wants because hE hAs NeEdS! And a myriad of other stupid and even downright dangerous advice that ruins a woman's mental health, takes years off her life, and destroys her chances at finding a healthy, normal, life partner that she can start a healthy, normal, family with. #TooManyWomen will have to experience a lot of shitty NVM because a misogynist society guilts women into giving worthless men chance, after chance, after chance. WHY???? ASK YOURSELF WHY??? A misogynistic society puts NVM above HVM. Above YOU.

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So you think society isn't misogynistic and I am just complaining. Shut up woman!

What are the signs of a misogynistic society??? A society that does not provide men with good values, but instead enforces negative ones. It even devalues HVM and their qualities like kindness, empathy, competency, integrity, morality, and loyalty towards their female partners. This society does not care about protecting it's women and children. It keeps women as weak and vulnerable as possible, even goes as far as disarming them and making self defense illegal. Women need to look out for each other and move in groups because this type of society will not protect their safety. It will produce a lot of entitled, dangerous men. #TooManyMen are taught not to be nice to women, to be aggressive, creepy, rapey, mean and cruel, because "it works". They are rewarded by their peers for treating women badly. Men will bond over women being degraded, hurt, even killed.

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Most often what is popular in society is wrong and you have to fight for what is moral and decent to be accepted. You have to speak up. It isn't easy, it is hard and it takes courage.