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[–]siberiansummerFDS Disciple49 points50 points51 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What? Another one? Jeez must be the coronavirus
[–]Davina33FDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol!
[–][deleted] 30 points31 points32 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Typical pickme. I bet she is enjoying the attention from LVM. 😂
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Donkey of the day award goes to.....
[–]CuriousCatNYC777Ruthless Strategist17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]MaisiebrFDS Newbie23 points24 points25 points 6 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
She almost got the point, but... yeah, no.
[–]_AnnairdA_FDS Newbie[S] 26 points27 points28 points 6 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
She doesn't have a point at all. No man is a prize even the "good" men.
[–]MaisiebrFDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
I was talking more along the lines of good men are hard to find, and why are we even dating any of them... But the majority of men being shit doesn't mean that we should overvalue the semi-decent or decent ones.
[–]_AnnairdA_FDS Newbie[S] 18 points19 points20 points 6 years ago* (9 children) | Copy Link
I understand what your saying, but even if the man is a genuinely good man that doesn't mean he's a prize and he shouldn't be praised for treating women with respect. Not saying you said that, but I notice a lot of women go crazy when they find a man that actually respects women and worship the ground he walks on because the bar is so damn low.
When I see a woman talking about how a man is a prize even if he is morally good just screams low self esteem and desperation to me. The woman is always suppose to be the prize.
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[–]_AnnairdA_FDS Newbie[S] 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Differentiating," Your a prize." from," I'm thankful for you." is not hard at all. You can appreciate your partner by saying," Thank you. I really appreciate you doing (whatever it is) for me." and leave it at that. You don't have to kiss your husband or boyfriends feet for him doing what he's suppose to do.
Too many of us have been programmed by society and raised by pickmeishas and it's showing because for so many women not to understand the difference between worshipping a man and showing appreciation is sad to see.
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[–]_AnnairdA_FDS Newbie[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm not saying it's easy under societal pressures at all. I was raised when men and boys were put first. My family (like a lot of other families in the World) has the mindset that if you don't do cook and clean everyday like a slave your going to end up alone and depressed while being hard on the girls in the family. I quickly learned that yes people do want social vaildation, but you should not have to sacrifice your self worth in the process if you have to do that then it's not worth it because in the end your going to suffer.
I'm not at all trying to dismiss this issue because I just brought up how a lot of these other "pro-women" don't seem to have empathy for other women in another thread.
I empathize with you, but if it is hard for you I suggest you work on your confidence and self esteem before you date because if you go in it with the mindset that," men are the prize" men will definitely take advantage of you and society will blame you for his behavior. If you don't have access to therapy at the moment there's books and videos you can access. Once your self esteem becomes better and better you'll be able to differentiate the two. Having experienced it myself if they do sense weakness and they will take advantage of you and they don't feel bad about it either. Your welcome and have a good rest of your day.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just remember, men invented Romance.
[–]InayahDaneenFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
On point sis 👏🏻 A woman is always the prize 💅🏻
[–]SoulsaltsFDS Apprentice4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A prize is something you compete for. Men should never ever be competed for. That's bad for women and bad for men (as we are currently learning in this world).
[–]drslvtrFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
When I see statements like this from young women, it makes me upset. Don't you have things you want to do, dreams you want to chase, schools you want to finish, careers you want to excel at? Is dating your only focus in life? Why are you wasting time worrying about some boy who doesn't even think about you?
There's so much potential in these young women, it's sad to see them waste it for men.
[–]_AnnairdA_FDS Newbie[S] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Because that's how a lot of the previous generations of women were and they raised us to be this way. I was raised a long with a lot of girls that your suppose to give up emotional, and physical labor for free for a boy because "boys will be boys." and the famous line that isn't even true," Boys mature slower than girls do." Honestly, I never listened because it didn't make any sense and I finally felt like I wasn't crazy when I saw women speaking out about it online these past 3 years.
My friend recently got told by an older man that she needs to learn how to clean and cook otherwise she won't find a man ( like women ever need a man), so it's definitely not just young men acting entitled and insane their that way because of the desperate baby boomers and generation xers coddling them and older men encouraging trash behavior.
[–]drslvtrFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm glad you didn't give in to the pressure. We're not crazy, we're waking up.
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