Looking for advise

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-08-25T22:07:44+00:00

Throw this guy back in the pond

EclecticBarbarella · 2020-08-25T22:35:42+00:00

Block him. Hun, this is not the one (or even like... the 1,245th). He is a WRECK and he is basically shouting that at you and you should avoid him like the plague. He will not change. He does not get bonus points for not being a worse person. He has told you what he does and does not want and you need to listen.

eveninghope · 2020-08-25T22:25:14+00:00

Sis the number of Indian doctors in the US is out of the world. You'll find manyyyyy more.

Jasminov1 · 2020-08-26T00:16:35+00:00

You’re focusing on his ability to speak your language and his profession instead of focusing on everything that is wrong with this guy:

He doesn’t want a relationship He’s wants to get you pregnant then dump you and the child. What kind of man does this?

You should have eliminated this guy from the beginning but you entertained him and his BS. You need to block and move on, but I have a feeling you need to learn your lesson to fully understand that you are not acting like a HVW by dealing with him.

Have you read the handbook?

trying_to_sleep_here · 2020-08-25T23:32:37+00:00

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randomgirlimok · 2020-08-26T00:24:48+00:00

This guy has made it clear he doesn’t want to be with you. He only wants sex. He will not marry you and he will not be your boyfriend. What are you doing?!?!!

apple_cores · 2020-08-25T23:46:53+00:00

Noooo. I know you’re attached but better to break it off now than get hurt more later which you undoubtedly will be if you give in. If you lose your virginity to this man, I guarantee you will feel 100x worse than you do now because your attachment will Intensify and he won’t stick around and be your man like you want. You’ll get over it with time.

I understand you want someone with the same culture and language but why does it have to be another doctor? Just because it’s a common thing to do? You said there are many engineers who speak the same language as you so I’d try that.

2020-08-26T02:54:16+00:00

He is quite jerky. Would you really want those genes for your kid?

dee-vee · 2020-08-26T05:47:57+00:00

I appreciate his honesty and being upfront about his needs-- he could have easily lied to have sex with you. He also is aware of his actions and how it would affect you - He's telling you how bad it is for you to continue this relationship with him. PLEASE LISTEN.

Now you have the power to say if this is what you want. I can tell you two want different things, so you should end it to prevent getting hurt even more. Rip the band aid off, go no contact and move on! Don't pull it off slowly because this relationship is only going to end one way-- with you being hurt because you already have feelings.

There are many healthy and smart sperm donors out there sis, don't use this as a way to hold on to him and hope for more. From one brown girl to another: End it- your future self will thank you

Title	Looking for advise
Author	frightene
Upvotes	5
Comments	33
Date	August 25, 2020 7:05 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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