Occasionally I’ll bring myself to watch this show, and it’s like watching a train wreck kill dozens of people in real time.

I have so many thoughts about this one from an FDS perspective, but my main thought is WHY DO WOMEN SIGN UP?

The risks for a woman being abused emotionally, used and dumped and humiliated are so high. After watching the 9th season, then watching the first few episodes of Season 10, I am completely flabbergasted by the continued viability of this show. You don’t even have to be a High Value Woman to observe that most of the relationships involve behaviours that no woman should tolerate. There have been like 11 seasons now, so all the evidence is there.

I just watched a man tell his new wife (a stranger) that if she didn’t sleep with him on the honeymoon, then that’s it. Well, actually he told her off-camera, she called him out on camera and he denied it and gaslit her. Like, if this was a date, you would block this idiot and block the “friend” that introduced you.

So I don’t get it. Especially as many of the women seem normal, educated, hard working, from good families. Then they sign up for THIS shitshow? Help me understand 😫