More evidence that pickmes never win

FluffandRainclouds · 2020-02-14T00:11:48+00:00

I agree with this post. However, the guy in the story is still LV because he cheats. HVM don't cheat because cheating indicates a huge character defect (such as lack of empathy, cluster B, dark triad traits possibly).

mantaraymagic · 2020-02-13T23:00:14+00:00

Oof. I needed to see this. Thanks for the post, OP.

I don't dote on people anymore but I can fall back into those patterns if I'm not careful about prioritizing my self-care.

Bennettist · 2020-02-14T03:59:38+00:00

Could we start flipping the idea of a "good" woman and "bad" woman? Let's define good relative to our shared experience: good women are whole people that take care of themselves, respect themselves, and treat people appropriate to the relationship--children get mothered, friends get friends love, and men get partner love. And bad women are... they never describe bad women in these memes, just non-slave, non-compliant women.

Title	More evidence that pickmes never win
Author	mypretties
Upvotes	373
Comments	7
Date	February 13, 2020 5:20 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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