I was a terrible pick me before I found this sub a few months ago and when I stumbled across you guys and read everything I could and realized how bad my last relationship was. I did every little thing for this man, even manual labor. I helped him with landscaping, I packed nearly all his things when he was moving, helped him move, I even unpacked for him, when he was stressed about his dog being alone while he worked I was the one who took the dog out while he was at work. During our relationship I got really depressed ( being a mother to this man baby didn't help ) and was put on suicide watch and this man had the audacity to lash out at me for not feeding his dog in the morning (something he never asked me to do, he admitted to this) which to note I woke up that morning having a panic attack and ran out of his apartment. He was so used to me doing every little thing for him he began to expect me to read his mind and take care of something he was supposed to do. In the end HE broke up with ME. And the pick me mindset I had made me apologize to him and wanted desperately to get back together. That is until I went on tinder looking for a rebound hookup and I spent the night with this HVM and woke up with breakfast in bed after one night of knowing him. That got me over my ex real quick once I realized my worth and what I fucking deserve which was only reinforced by this sub. Now I know what to look for in men, and how to healthily date. So thanks for helping me out, I won't ever let a man baby walk all over me again.