Never be a pick-me, ladies.

honeydewmelonz · 2020-03-06T05:07:06+00:00

This is my new FAVORITE post.

timetofliptables · 2020-03-06T05:11:58+00:00

There’s a woman in my friends group like this and I didn’t notice it as much before but now it’s like nails on a chalkboard in my brain every time.

DinkyDoo531 · 2020-03-06T11:25:32+00:00

Omg one of my boyfriend's family members is like this. It drives me insane.

I remember one time she came to my house unannounced, my hair was in braids from the night before. I came out the room and she's with her man, her face was priceless. She said "oh you just did those braids for me?" I didn't realize at the time but she thought I was trying to look good for her man. Oh and she's 40 years old acting like this.

artemis_moon_goddess · 2020-03-06T05:28:33+00:00

I try not to trash talk anyone. It's not healthy. What happened to having adult conversations?

desertraton · 2020-03-06T16:02:18+00:00

I always think of the youtuber shoeonhead who thinks feminism is cancer. Her whole channel is basically devoted to trashing feminism for a whole bunch of neckbeards to stroke her ego.

wandererme101 · 2020-03-06T09:34:23+00:00

Can anyone guide me to where i can read about pickmeshas? How they are, act, behave etc so i can see where to change and improve my behaviour.

fleur0394 · 2020-03-06T17:56:38+00:00

Not only do some women do this, but they also turn around to say you're shitting on them and play the victim if you call them out, and just go deeper into their pickmeisha-hood. The manipulative behavior is unreal. Its' not even the same obviously since their end goal is to try to win some approval of some stupid guys, while calling it out is just me placing boundaries for some basic human respect.

Like I had a woman in my last workplace like this. Slagging me and spreading weird rumors from day one to try to make me look incompetent or to try to ostracize me from the rest (which is the type of environment that the LVM manager was creating to begin with as well). The moment I called out her b.s. and pointed out how she wasn't doing part of her work (which I would have to pick up after) she went into victim mode of, "Wow that woman is being so mean to me." I just can not with these types. As much as I would like women to all be on the same boat, some of them make it impossible to be. Those types do have to wake up and see that they are playing a losing game. She didn't get a raise or promotion out of it, she just made work unpleasant for everyone involved.

This meme is such an accurate representation, though. I love it.

tinagoldbreau · 2020-03-06T06:53:41+00:00

I used to think this was a thing only teenagers and young women did, but there are still some older women who do this. Some women never mature and stay forever pickmeishas.

littlecuterose · 2020-03-06T07:12:19+00:00

Okay, I could be imagining shit but I swear that this woman is a youtuber.

Radtron3000 · 2020-03-06T08:31:37+00:00

Laugh out LOUD

Radtron3000 · 2020-03-06T08:31:51+00:00

Because it's so fucking obvious

BasieSkanks · 2020-03-06T10:23:05+00:00

Lauren Chen, in a nutshell.

2020-03-06T10:56:36+00:00

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Title	Never be a pick-me, ladies.
Author	AspenGoddess
Upvotes	380
Comments	21
Date	March 6, 2020 4:26 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/fe850b/never_be_a_pickme_ladies/
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