First of all, thank you for this sub, it has helped me a lot.

I've been single for a year and a half after a really toxic relationship and first I just wanted to focus on myself but lately, I would like to start dating, meet people etc.

The problem is, I live in a small town. It is a college town (I'll be in my last year of uni next year) but I don't really find most of the men I meet attractive or interesting. I wish I could build "a roster" like it is advised here, but how can I do it if I'm only attracted to 1% of the men I meet? Most men my age (I'm 22) don't take good care of their bodies and don't dress well, and most are kind of unattractive. I had a friend from Barcelona visit me here, and she was baffled that after a night out, she didn't see one single attractive man. But, worst of all, they are incredibly boring, their only hobbies are watching Netflix and going partying. Is it that difficult to find a men who reads, who is interested in history, the arts, who has some type of passion?

They are also lazy as hell. If they like a girl, they try to hookup with her at a party and see where it goes, or just reply to her IG stories or something. If they offer a coffee date you can consider yourself lucky.

My friends are starting to pressure me to be with someone, some are pickmes and think that getting the most sex every night you go out means you are the most attractive woman or something. And most of the ones who are in committed relationships have boyfriends that continuously disrespect them.

I'm tired of them telling me that I am too picky or a prude; I can't imagine sleeping with someone I just met or someone I don't find attractive.

Do you think there are places that have more HVW and places that have more LVM?