No more guilt trips

littlecuterose · 2020-02-03T20:19:06+00:00

From my experience, literally every man has done this offense at least once, even family.

extraacct1234 · 2020-02-03T20:33:33+00:00

Once I had a guy make up what I know believe to be a lie. He claimed that his friends told him that I was not smart and he was obviously just with me for my looks. At the time I thought it was really odd since his friends and I couldn't even speak to each other because they didn't speak my language and I didn't speak his language, I was living in a foreign country. Also I only met these friends one time very briefly in passing. Why would they claim I was stupid?

I had a lot of confidence and I think he just said this to try to take me down a notch so he would feel better. He was very narcissistic but also very insecure and I now believe that he suffers from narcissism. He was also an abuser. This was just one of his many layers of attacks.

I've also had them take me down a notch when I talked about feeling confident about my body, been smiling and feeling confident, sometimes they like to insult your looks or intelligence or other factors when they're attracted to you and actually like you and they feel that they're catching feelings or even if you're obviously liking them and they are commitment phobic, when talking about things that I've built or fixed, talking about using tools, knowing things about cars, having an opinion, demanding literally anything, having literally any confidence. And more. One time I even talked about taking wood shop in middle school and that triggered the guy so bad had different immediately insult me. Another time I made an intelligent commentary on a conversation with a bunch of guys on a subject I had just studied and this dude was compelled to act outrageously shocked that I would even be intelligent enough to come up with something intelligent to say.

CuriousCatNYC777 · 2020-02-03T16:39:24+00:00

This is why they gaslight us endlessly.

persephones_torch · 2020-02-03T20:11:31+00:00

One example: shaming JLo and Shakira for the halftime performance. Two powerful sexy Latinas giving an amazing performance and all puritanical America was outraged because it was too risque. Really?? America really is scared of women owning their sexuality because it gives women too much power once we start being unashamed about celebrating our bodies, our femininity, our sensuality.

Sekina7 · 2020-04-07T11:30:13+00:00

And this is the root cause of all men made religion , slut shaming etc...

Sekina7 · 2020-04-07T11:32:17+00:00

This is the root inspiration for man made patriarchal religions and policing women’s sexuality -it’s the most sought after commodity in the WORLD and if women knew how much power they really had and didn’t fall prey to so called “morality politics “ there would never be a poor women again!

Title	No more guilt trips
Author	jetpatch
Upvotes	556
Comments	27
Date	February 3, 2020 4:35 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ey9pm1/no_more_guilt_trips/
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