I’ve been on a reddit for awhile and almost every post on the sex subreddit that’s written by a woman is about how she desperately wants to please her male partner/bf/husband. If you want new tips that’s fine but why on earth do they act like it’s utterly urgent or some emergency and that if they don’t please their partners their world is gonna end or something?? It just comes across so desperate and yet I hardly see guys posting about wanting to please their partners with such desperation.

Why are women(or pick mes in this case) so so desperate to please their partners sexually that they’re willing to compromise their own sexual needs?? I’ve seen posts where a woman will go above and beyond her limits and compromise just to please her partner yet that same partner can’t be bothered to get her off? And what’s more infuriating is that she won’t even think of breaking up instead just dealing with it?? When I know for a fact the second a man is not sexually satisfied they will break up in a heartbeat. Men see women not willing to do a certain act as dealbreakers, they will literally leave a partner based on what she is not or is willing to do in the bedroom but there’s plenty of women who have stayed in relationships where they’ve never orgasmed in their life???

Sometimes I feel like this is why men think it’s okay if they don’t satisfy their partners because they know they’ll still stay out of “love” because women will still value other stuff outside the sexual aspect of the relationship and stay for that whereas men will leave if not sexually satisfied even if every other aspect of the relationship is perfect because to them sex is everything, almost as if they base how much they love/value you on what you can do for them sexually??