Basically I matched with this guy on Tinder, and we’ve been talking for the past two weeks. He’s an extremely nice and genuine person (as in he’s not doing it for show. I even DMed a girl from his Instagram profile who he was friends with in Highschool and she said he’s one of the nicest people ever). He’s about 5’9, so not super tall, but he has a very cute face and smiles a lot. I’m 18 and a freshman, and he’s 20 and I believe is a junior. Anyways, we’re both college students, at universities about 2 hours apart.

So we’ve been snapchatting back and forth and occasionally texting as well, just getting to know one another and stuff. Sometimes I leave his snapchats on read just to see how he reacts and he usually double snaps me, so it gives me the vibe that he cares.

So now the main topic. He said he really wants to see me, and wants to get to know me better, so I told him to come over here. So he drives to my university, we meet in person. He’s just like he was online, very nice very friendly, we go out to eat and he pays, the whole 9 yards. So we get back to my dorm and end up doing it. And this is where I can’t get past mentally.

The sex was awful. I’m not gonna lie, his dick was slightly below average (like MAYBE 5 inches) and I couldn’t really feel anything to be honest. I could tell he was really trying to pleasure me, but physically it was just not possible whatsoever.

When he left he seemed kind of embarrassed, and now he’s been talking to me less this week. This whole thing happened over the weekend. My problem is that I really do like him, I just need to be sexually pleasured and he’s not doing it for me. At the same time I’d feel kind of guilty breaking it off with someone who is basically ideal, doesn’t act like a typical mood, and actually cares about me, just because of sex.