So I can’t figure out what the situation is- I have this guy in my friend group and we have always been flirty towards; whenever our friend group goes to concerts we always end up standing next to each/dance on each other/ kissing, he asked me to hookup a few times and I always said no. A few months go by and he’ll randomly Snapchat me out of the blue, and vise versa, but will never really hit on me, but will stare and want to be around me kinda vibes, then one night he came over and we had sex and the next morning was chill, nothing big. A few weeks later I ended up messaging him after a few drinks, asking if he wanted to come over and he said he couldn’t that night but would be definitely be down another night- so months pass and he never makes the next move so I messaged him again, drinking involved again, and he didn’t open it til next morning but we never addressed it, then or ever (thank god lol), anyways a few more weeks later he messaged me when he was in my town and I messaged back and he didn’t reply, and then a few more weeks later he invited me to his NYE party but I couldn’t go. Fast forward a new more weeks, the other night, and I was leaving the bar and I saw him with another girl and he was fine but I could tell me was trying to act like he wasn’t with her, like she tried to grab his hand and he pulled away, and he was saying how he was going to our friends’ making it seems like he wasn’t taking her home but obviously he was, almost like he was not playing into the girl, but now I’m just confused on how he feels, if he likes me, or if I look like a pathetic, obesssed girl

Not in an annoying way it’s almost like he is intimidated to talk to me?? But sometimes he isn’t ? It’s just so weird!!!