This is why we block and don’t look back.

Datonecatladyukno · 2020-03-31T17:00:30+00:00

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persephones_torch · 2020-03-31T17:45:53+00:00

For men, they have a baseline effort. However you see them in their normal days, the days you are just relaxing, no pressure, that's it, that's how they are as a default. That is the level you will expect from them as partners.

Grand gestures of romance to try to win you back? Once you're finally fed up? That's not them. That's them trying their very best because their ego cannot handle them losing you. Because 'wtf dude I am like the best man I know why would she fucking leave I'm such a good guy the best catch the best in bed. And if I really tried and showed her who I am shes gonna want me back just you watch bro'

So the flowers, the gifts, the love letters, chocolates, texts, groveling, the fancy dates to try to win you back is advertising. It's them on full blast effort.

Always look at the baseline. Not upward spikes. The baseline with them is how life with them would be like. Don't be fooled. They don't change.

Yianna_F · 2020-03-31T16:08:10+00:00

bUt mUhhh DiCkkkk 😭😭😭

2020-03-31T22:45:42+00:00

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CatsOnTheLaptopAgain · 2020-04-01T14:09:50+00:00

Aka exactly the same thing, but now aware that no one actually wants him, and trying to sell himself harder.

123heatherfeather · 2020-04-02T22:17:11+00:00

I guarantee that everyone is going to receive A LOT of these "oh I miss you so much, I'm so sorry, let's hang out again" type messages during this quarantine. These guys are now without any means to pursue anyone IRL and they don't want to compete with other guys on Tinder so NOW they've had this epiphany that they have to treat us like humans. As soon as quarantine is over they'll be back to their same (low) standard of behavior. Block and never look back, you have nothing to lose except for a loser who never really appreciated you.

Title	This is why we block and don’t look back.
Author	ghostieonreddit
Upvotes	1399
Comments	13
Date	March 31, 2020 3:52 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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