This is why we make them wait. Eventually even the most cleverly contrived mask will fall off. My name isn’t Sheby.

vghoulgirl · 2019-11-22T05:03:43+00:00

This feels so contrived. Like you said- as if he's trying to make you jealous. Love that you blocked him after the GIF. Let him wallow in the consequences of his pig-brained ideas.

brainsandb00bs · 2019-11-22T01:48:13+00:00

Quick run down:

This was someone I thought was probably the most or second most high value man in my rotation. Never hesitates to pick up a check. Educated. Good career at work. Total gentleman. Respects my physical boundaries. Has taken me out many times and never complained about the check. Literally called me yesterday to discuss exclusivity. I told him I needed more time and a few more dates to figure it out. He tells me he is into me, seriously, and isn’t seeing other women. I told him I’m seeing other men so I don’t care either way. He insists he is okay with waiting, isn’t keeping options open anymore because I’m who he wants, He wants to earn my trust, bla bla bla all the usual lies men tell.

Then he hits me with this while we were talking about our date for tonight. “Accidentally” texted me a sexually charged message meant for another woman. I’m seeing other men so him talking to another woman isn’t my issue. The thing that bothers me is that he said he dropped all his other women so he is either a liar, or manipulatively trying to make me jealous because I said I want to wait, and I’m not having it. I sent him that gif then blocked him immediately.

This is why we make these men wait. Eventually their true colors come out. I already made plans with another man for tonight, too. So it’s his loss.

reddituser39682 · 2019-11-22T02:46:54+00:00

What a fucking moron lmao.

SaltCupcake · 2019-11-22T01:54:47+00:00

Shelby?! Boy bye. You can bounce on your cock up and down out of here.

https://imgur.com/a/DAPQcmB

rftw2013 · 2019-11-22T06:33:34+00:00

OMG. Men are such players. He was texting you, telling you everything you wanted to hear, all whilst telling Shelby whatserface the he wanted her bouncing on his cock.

Men will lie to your face, whilst smiling the entire time.

Sis, good thing you never slept with this trash.

daveachapella · 2019-11-22T03:21:33+00:00

What did he say in response?

lasolterita · 2019-11-22T03:23:56+00:00

I'm DEAD what'd he reply?? Update please!

ArpanaGuleri · 2019-11-22T09:25:06+00:00

Men will lie to your face, whilst smiling the entire time.

PandaLLC · 2019-11-22T08:47:12+00:00

Thank you for posting your story. It's very teaching and very valuable.

dodobo18 · 2019-11-22T13:15:34+00:00

His true colours did really come out!

Title	This is why we make them wait. Eventually even the most cleverly contrived mask will fall off. My name isn’t Sheby.
Author	brainsandb00bs
Upvotes	178
Comments	18
Date	November 22, 2019 1:40 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/dztsgq/this_is_why_we_make_them_wait_eventually_even_the/
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