Perhaps this isn’t the desired solution to feminism’s perceived problems in the context where men are “known”for being awful and violent offenders…

WeEatBabies · 2021-11-13T20:23:20+00:00

My problem is with the way the laws and police procedures are written, ....

Even if there is a video of her initiating violence, if he just holds her arm until she calms down, he goes to jail.

Horny20yrold · 2021-11-13T22:25:40+00:00

So the PSAs that shows women as those incredibly oppressed butterflies that violent mean men beat for no reason were dishonest propaganda?

peanutbutterjams · 2021-11-13T23:10:49+00:00

And that's only physical violence. What about emotional abuse? The constant needling and belittling of a man who's drowning in a death from a thousand cuts?

amkmaker1754 · 2021-11-13T18:43:02+00:00

…and therefore figuring out how to prevent women from suffering more violence.

Newsflash: maybe don’t be violent first. Great read.

Unless I have to repost because this is a screenshot (and I can’t figure out the rules on screenshots), I’ll copy the link to the study they mention in the original post.

Edit for link : https://www.huffpost.com/entry/researcher-says-womens-in_b_222746?fbclid=IwAR0lzxHIRSg0SIac52JKXizPzjU31GkQoiriXl8YiF0EmVSrJJGdOsaai2I

*I know it’s huffpost. I’m surprised they published this, it’s gonna piss a lot of people off.

Edit for further commentary:

This article was based on a study written by a woman. I have this theory that intellectually a d emotionally intelligent women in educated professions are ideal supporters… if they hear about the problem. Not a conspiracy nut enough to believe the media could be controlled by shareholders AND feminism… but weirder things have happened I guess.
This article was written TEN YEARS AGO. They knew about this problem ten years ago, but somehow it’s fine to let the women continue playing the victim after hitting their partners and getting a solid smack back… I am seeing red. How is this okay!!!!
The article was written by the Executive Director of the group Fathers and Families, “the nation's largest family court reform organization. Fathers and Families, a 501 (c) (3) nonprofit organization, improves the lives of children and strengthens society by protecting the child's right to the love and care of both parents after separation or divorce.” Where was this article a year ago? Well, probably buried by HuffPost’s shitty reputation prior to the last year. Redemption!

I think I might cry.

SamaelET · 2021-11-13T23:09:32+00:00

The Doctor saving us once again !

Hallowed-Edge · 2021-11-14T06:33:39+00:00

It doesn't actually say how many female DV victims initiated the violence though, only how many were violent at all.

Checkmateship · 2021-11-16T06:31:38+00:00

Title	Perhaps this isn’t the desired solution to feminism’s perceived problems in the context where men are “known”for being awful and violent offenders…
Author	amkmaker1754
Upvotes	184
Comments	16
Date	November 13, 2021 6:40 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates
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