Can you believe this behaviour?

Whiskeybandit67 · 2017-04-04T12:25:01+00:00

She Just Wanted to Go To an Expensive Restaurant And Then Never See You again.

GFandango · 2017-04-04T14:20:46+00:00

Man I don't mean to put you down or be rude but why do you even bother?

Just for the pussy? How many of this boring shallow bitches do you have to go through to meet someone remotely interesting?

When I imagine myself being "stuck" in a bar having to make conversation with people like that I almost feel like I'd rather just hang myself from the ceiling instead.

I wish some fun was left in these things. I don't have that much experience but seems like everything has become so monetary give/take and transactional.

The date would seem more like a job interview than a date. Or more like a meeting between the presidents of two countries where they have to be super political about everything they say and do. It seems more like an exhausting job than fun.

Ckb79 · 2017-04-04T12:42:51+00:00

We spoke on the phone in between the "I pay and I choose" and "Ok Heres the deal" She literally said "I will make a list of 5 places and get back to you" which at that point I thought fuck this, im not going to have demands thrown at me of where to take a girl. Seriously

Ckb79 · 2017-04-04T12:18:31+00:00

Your only response should have been silence and ghosting. That would have hurt her most.

Lord_Trajan · 2017-04-04T14:12:43+00:00

had a fun personality

a list of her favourite wine bars that I could take her to.

These two things don't feel very compatible.

Raiden627 · 2017-04-04T14:18:16+00:00

You fucked up by asking a girl on a date anyway. You'd go on that date and she'd expect to be entertained by her clown all evening.

SinTekniq · 2017-04-04T13:31:39+00:00

Damn bro I'll let you pick the place as long as you're down to by me a beer lol

yellow_black · 2017-04-04T15:21:04+00:00

Fine wine bar, Yarra yadda yadda. I have no idea how men put up with this shit. You know what the real red pill is? Prostitutes. Regular sexual release without strings attached will show you that, really", and I mean *genuinely, from the bottom of your soul, you don't want a woman. You don't need one, and it's hard to believe until the chemical changes in your mind and body that occur after sex happen again and again without fail and convince you, you don't WANT one. Women, when actually treated as people, not just sex objects (which is what your mind does after sexual release), are unbearable fools. Leaving is the most useful thing a woman can do to improve most situations.

Then again, I'm a 40 year old in a place where prostitution is legal. YMMV.

manthrowingmyownway · 2017-04-04T15:05:49+00:00

What have we learned today?

Brainmouth · 2017-04-04T16:03:09+00:00

I'm an old fashioned girl...

Great! Ill pay for dates and even buy you expensive ring If I want to marry you.. but.. first.. as an old fashioned men myself lemme ask you... What is your dowry?

squidracer · 2017-04-04T16:53:11+00:00

Luckily I haven't dealt with this much. I usually offer to meet then I'm dollar whisky night. I refuse to do dinner.

Ironically, the better quality girls are cool with that. If she says she's worth more chances are she's worth nothing

toysjoe · 2017-04-04T17:19:57+00:00

Should've just stopped texting after that first text.

chronoic · 2017-04-04T15:29:25+00:00

Should of said "Since your choosing and Im paying, Can I choose where we will be screwing?"

2017-04-04T14:49:45+00:00

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Zombocom1911 · 2017-04-04T16:24:01+00:00

The worst part is not the list or paying ... the worst part is dealing with and trying to manage her shit entitled narcissistic judgmental overly sensitive attitude for hours... before she blows up and causes a scene over one tiny thing you said... that is the real hidden cost

ustael · 2017-04-04T17:48:19+00:00

I would tell her to go ahead and pick one and I would meet her there. Then just not show. Go to the bar you suggested and enjoy a drink on your own.

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2017-04-04T15:25:44+00:00

Simply taking the time to interact with her and text her like this is simping out, and she knows it. She is seeing how much more energy that she can extract out of you. When will you stop giving her your energy, and make her work for you like nature intended?

99posse · 2017-04-04T16:12:03+00:00

Your fault, IMO. I would have said bye at "boys pay".

I can and I have done that, but it's my call.

2017-04-04T16:26:55+00:00

Just to let you know: don't ever use the word sorry, especially around women. If you fuck up royally, say something like 'it won't happen again' or, 'I didn't realize' or find a way to turn it into a joke.

holidaysboots · 2017-04-04T17:01:16+00:00

ENTITLEMENT! Fuck those cunts. The sad part is there are too many young men dying of thirst. There will be another horny idiot who'll tolerate her bullshit until he's handed the divorce papers a few years later.

Griever114 · 2017-04-04T17:40:34+00:00

Congrats, not stop playing the field and just go with an escort. At least you KNOW what your dollar buys. None of this wishy washing bullshit.

2017-04-04T18:39:54+00:00

Does she want a private violin player at the table too?

hazmigaming · 2017-04-04T18:44:27+00:00

self entitled woman should be ignored.this world not revolve around her.

jackonager · 2017-04-04T18:57:30+00:00

Nice work

FreeManIsFrank · 2017-04-04T19:11:14+00:00

Honestly, you failed the moment you replied to her initial message of "I'm just an old fashioned girl..boys pay on the first date".

2017-04-04T22:44:18+00:00

"I'm an old fashioned girl" lol, no, you're just a whore.

me_and_batman · 2017-04-04T18:40:14+00:00

In this situation she saw you as the beggar in a "beggar's can't be choosers" way.

Xilent9 · 2017-04-04T20:02:52+00:00

Even the first message made me sick. If I were you I wouldn't have answered anymore after that.

cyborg_type_darkness · 2017-04-04T21:41:13+00:00

boys pay for the first date except generation z

men however...

idontknowofficer2 · 2017-04-04T21:41:23+00:00

She's pathetic.

801735 · 2017-04-04T21:52:23+00:00

TYPO!!!!

She then tells me she will make a list of her favourite whine bars that I could take her to.

MuscleMaturity · 2017-04-04T22:14:24+00:00

Pussypass free meal DENIED! Good job bro!

plutosheen · 2017-04-04T23:53:03+00:00

You should've just agreed on what she wanted. Then ghost her and block her number.

feedmecarrots · 2017-04-05T00:51:05+00:00

I hope that she learned not to try that again. She overreached.

its_blithe · 2017-04-05T01:02:30+00:00

Melbourne?

gods_bones · 2017-04-05T06:18:54+00:00

If you take her for a drink, you can't have sex with her without opening up yourself to the liability of a false rape accusation. Going for coffee may reduce your chances of getting laid, since she won't be uninhibited, but it's the safest option.

charlie22901 · 2017-04-05T06:55:41+00:00

Why are you engaging? You tell her what is going to happen and then don't respond. If she doesn't come to her sense and agree, then you ghost her and move on.

xXx420VTECxXx · 2017-04-06T22:57:04+00:00

1) Make restaurant date

2) Order meal

3) Take a call and leave.

Albacorewing · 2017-04-04T22:01:32+00:00

You could never have a lifelong relationship with her. Imagine going through that crap each day for 50 years.

fantasmas05 · 2017-04-04T12:10:28+00:00

I don't know man... what she was saying wasn't unreasonable and you came across like an asshole.

By the way, Transit fucking sucks!

Title	Can you believe this behaviour?
Author	Ckb79
Upvotes	106
Comments	125
Date	April 4, 2017 12:05 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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