There is a man at my work who is a beta incel. He is very nice to women, which is why he has never had a girlfriend and women do not respect him. However, after speaking to him, I have learned that he is very wealthy because being an awkward beta incel means women never date him which means he spends his weekends playing video games in his mother's basement and invests all his salary, so he is very wealthy. My fear is that this incel still wants women. He is not a MGTOW. If it gets out that he is a cashed up incel, some post wall woman will take advantage of him, so I feel I need to turn this boy towards the ways of MGTOW, but I don't want to outright talk about MGTOW lest he goes to HR and I lose my job, so how can I protect this man without hurting myself?
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Ah, the perfect "cover" and ideal way to avoid gold diggers.
Meh sounds to me like he's a "herbivore" type of MGTOW.
And how do you know he's an incel or even "celibate"? Have you been stalking him? Spying on him 24 x 7 x 365?
Who knows... maybe he has a sex doll at home? Maybe he hires an "escort" a couple of times a year? Maybe he just has better/more "control" over his sex drive than you do?
Why is THIS your fear? Why is this your business in any way shape or form?
Do you have the gay "hots" for him or something? (And I do not mean that as a "shaming" thing... but as an actual serious {but rhetorical*} question.)
-- * Meaning a question for you to ask YOURSELF... no point in replying here; as any answer you give to others will not be reliable anyway.
Actually there is really no way for you to know that for certain.
At least not at this point and from the apparently superficial & circumstantial tidbits of "anecdote" you've noted. Again he might just be very good at playing the "beta incel" part as a cover for being MGTOW (it is after all a more or less "ideal" one, the best form of camouflage is to hide in plain sight... to be so boringly predictable that no one {or at least no "normies"} given him any thought whatsoever -- moreover that isn't simply a MGTOW thing, it's a "Millionaire Next Door" thing, and a long-standing tactic of "tradecraft"** that has its roots in hunting/stalking).
And he may simply KNOW enough (perhaps better than you) to NOT talk about "Fight Club."
-- ** Most people really don't seem to comprehend that the whole array of unique "trademark" characteristics of the "James Bond" style "world famous spy" (LOL, famous AS a "spy") ... are the exact opposite of what any actual "spy" or undercover agent would do; Ian Fleming's character was intentionally crafted as a farcical parody (i.e. what no real "spy" would do); so all "parodies" of Bond (Austin Powers et al) are actually farcical parodies of a farcical parody (that's the joke within the joke).
Maybe... or maybe not. Maybe he's not as ignorant and foolish as you seem to believe.
Not everyone follows the same "style" of being a MGTOW you know.
Hells bells, you've apparently missed out on your homework -- but we often discuss that kind of thing in various threads here -- rather than making yourself a "target" for HR/SJW types by being openly "MGTOW" (and risking "shitting" where you "eat"), it's often far more advantageous to simply "play along" in one form or another: some guys play at being a sort of (somewhat "creepy" off-putting) "playboy-flirt" (works especially well if you're NOT "swole"); others deflect attention become "invisible" to women and get automatically "friendzoned" by simply playing at being the "really NICE guy."
The open, outward, publicly "DGAF" type of MGTOW is not the image/style that most young "working" guys should be playing at in their workplace -- THAT type of thing is probably really best left to those who already have achieved financial independence, and both reach an age/stage in life where their resources are fairly strongly INSULATED against "attack" by anyone, whether employer, client or family & "friends" (i.e. they're in a true "Fuck You Position" -- and where awareness that they are MGTOW {or a "confirmed bachelor"} will be greeted by a "Yeah, Duh! We already know THAT!" by everyone in his life).
What makes you think this is your job?
Seriously.
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Of course not.
But who says this guy is "in need"???
-- MGTOW is not a "cult" or a "religion" -- it's a personal choice (with it's own significant "price to pay") that people should be allowed to figure out, or "discover" on their own accord, it shouldn't be something that gets FORCED onto anyone (a pointless endeavor anyway, since it DOESN'T work) -- ergo only "newbie" idiots think they have to go around evangelizing, preaching, proselytizing and "converting" others to the "faith."
-- Drop hints in some casual conversation when things more or less turn to the subject area? Fine.
Trying to "save" someone because YOU think YOU know what is "BEST" for their life... Well, unless it's your CHILD and you have a parental responsibility to offer guidance (but even then prepare to be "balked") that's an exception -- but otherwise, it's really NOT your job.
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It's also likely to be about as effective as dropping off a "Book of Mormon" on someone's desk.
That's more or less what is known as "chickenshit evangelism."
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-- Ah, but it's not your viewpoint or perspective on the material in question that matters... it's what perception that the RECIPIENT will treat it with on receipt.
How do you treat things from "anonymous" sources that just "shows up" unsolicited in your mailbox, inbox, or email account, etc?
-- If this fellow is truly still "blue pill" (and desperate/thirsty "incel") then said book will very much be JUST LIKE someone else plopping a copy of the "Book of Mormon" on YOUR desk... you're not going to read it, and he is not going to read the stuff someone ELSE "drops" in that manner either.
-- Face it, that kind of "chickenshit evangelism" isn't about helping anyone else -- its about YOU somehow trying to assuage a "guilty conscience" inside yourself -- it's about your "feelz" and not their "realz."
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