Declining Advances

Isaiah4verse1 · 2016-03-06T07:15:01+00:00

Where on earth did you get the idea it was a good idea to have not one, not two but 3 female roommates?

To answer your question, yes, strong independent wummin absolutely believe they are entitled to your attention and interest. You did well putting them in their place. Now brace yourself for a false rape charge because you dared to blaspheme against the holy blood and urine soaked vagina.

KingGeno · 2016-03-06T07:11:43+00:00

does it seem like women feel entitled to the interest of men where as men should feel blessed by the interest of a woman

Nope, it's not just your perception. You'd be surprised how offended women act/look when a man rejects their offer.

It's the same reason why alot of women and blue-pill men preach that the man should always make the first move; that would save the woman from rejection and the thoughts and emotions that may arise because of it.

cosmic1234 · 2016-03-06T11:24:19+00:00

I have a somewhat similar story involving a fat woman and a sister.

Some fat girl really wanted to go out with me and I declined. I told my sister about this and she said that I was a "cruel person", and that I was lucky to get any attention from any woman at all (which came as a shocking revelation to me). All this time I thought of all the women who rejected me for my lack of height. This was the first time I've told her anything about dating or anything related to mate seeking or women seeking me. It was a great "oops" moment for her, as I learned that my own sister saw me as a subhuman male for being short. It was her way of trying to put me in my place. What pissed her off was me having the gall to have standards and reject women that I'm not even remotely interested in, as she clearly believes that I'm on the level of the fat woman that I'm supposed to be jumping in excitement for. I learned that, as a short man, I'm not entitled to even be attracted to attractive women let alone dare to make any advances towards them, and doing so is like an affront to sexual marketplace hierarchy. How dare I have standards!

Even our own family can hit us with some barbs, and in these cases our sisters, who think we deserve to be alone, and in my case, lucky at all to even get attention from the most unattractive of women.

azpx00 · 2016-03-06T08:39:54+00:00

I think women have a harder time handling romantic rejection than men because they don't go through it as often. Then there are some women who are fully convinced that any man would be lucky to have them and can't handle the reality that men may not be interested in them.

Although it's odd that your sister replied that way. The times I've spoken to my sister about relationships, she's always been cool although I think that's more about apathy than her being cool.

lutv · 2016-03-06T12:54:32+00:00

You don't know it but you dodged a bullet. If the friendship had proceeded to the next stage, and you had had to reject sexual advances instead of just friendship advances, oh boy...the rage would be intense. She can easily use the false rape accusation card at that stage or domestic violence card, and her friends would absolutely support her accusations when the cops turn up.

I posted real-life evidence of this here : https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/48frdc/my_crazy_woman_encounter/d0kbjvq

Basically, they cannot BEAR to be rejected. This is why women accomplish nothing in life : they cannot take even a bit of risk without freaking out. Their self-esteem is fragile, without foundation.

excitementlevelzero · 2016-03-06T15:38:12+00:00

were the situation reversed and you were trying to entice a lone female room-mate to come hang with you and your "bros", then you would be pushy or a creep or worse. Totally, obviously within your right to spend your evening how you want to.

LordPorker · 2016-03-06T10:22:06+00:00

Get ready for accusations of being 'gay'.

oldredder · 2016-03-06T08:27:06+00:00

No, you got it right.

If people are boring or ugly it's only mild politeness to act otherwise.

AOF_Semiramis · 2016-03-08T06:13:56+00:00

Dodged a bullet,awesome.Now make sure your never alone with them so they can't pull the false-rape accusation card.Record everything while your at it.

I rejected 2 different women in the Ph.One just cried,the other went nuts and wanted to destroy me.I had to bring out my "Uncle is a judge card" so shit won't escalate into something bad. It worked.

In retrospect,its a good idea to reject on the grounds of "being taken(just lie)",where'as completely not giving an F is a bad idea.

Overall,awesome op.

Funnily enough,i rejected the first one because i was "taken",didnt mention that it was an anime girl LOLLOLOLOLOL.Thinking about it,i should've said that just to see her reaction LMAO.

Botanical-Concepts · 2016-03-06T07:57:33+00:00

It's one thing if your room mate was at least cordial with you. What does she expect after being so indifferent to you previously? Not that you need to accept the invitation if this wasn't the case... just saying.

modernbenoni · 2016-03-06T13:45:27+00:00

Really we don't know for sure what their intentions were since you didn't go up. Personally I'd have gone and said hey and if they were trying for anything more than just a chat and I wasn't into that then I'd leave.

Has she done anything like this before?

Title	Declining Advances
Author	coyotecall
Upvotes	38
Comments	28
Date	March 6, 2016 7:02 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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