Does anyone else here genuinely hate kids?

WolfgangBreitweit · 2018-06-04T17:03:54+00:00

To me it’s because childhood wasn’t that nice so I decided to avoid creating people who might suffer in the same way.

ThePlague · 2018-06-04T17:15:23+00:00

I don't hate them, I just don't want them around: they're loud, obnoxious, smelly, ignorant, and can't hold their liquor. That describes many adults as well, it's just universally true for them.

georgesoyros · 2018-06-04T17:08:00+00:00

...while the irresponsible parents don't even try to take control of them.

That's the real problem.

I don't hate kids at all. I don't like naive people who don't even think about 'having' kids but just dump them here on this earth and expect that raising their kids can be done on autopilot.

Raising kids involves time, energy and money. If you don't have that, don't even bother 'getting' a kid.

Long_Range_Shooter · 2018-06-04T17:06:36+00:00

I actually love kids and animals. Once they get over twelve or so they get really annoying. The best years are between two and eight.

A lot of the women that I've dated in the past, I looked forward to seeing the kids and pets over dealing with the mom.

I've never understood after a divorce how any man could walk away from his children. What, to get back at the ex-wife so you punish the kid or kids?

jezzerzz · 2018-06-04T17:12:40+00:00

I hate headaches. Children give me headaches.

I don't hate kids per se, but I hate the effect that being even remotely close to them has on me. Lol.

MGTOW + Childfree for life

HorusEyeDrops · 2018-06-04T17:02:25+00:00

Hating children is common in the psychopath demographic.

At this point in my life, I'm not fond of children, but I think that's bc of my current insecurity/fear of being as helpless and naive as they are.

unsheddogmatisms · 2018-06-04T17:07:41+00:00

I don't want them in my general vicinity. "Severe hatred" sounds like you want to obliterate them lol. Most parents are incompetent and exacerbate the problem with most children.

E46M54 · 2018-06-04T17:54:24+00:00

I don't hate the kids themselves but I hate that they are forced into existence against their will because parents needed more love and attention.

Ghustgan · 2018-06-04T18:11:43+00:00

They're annoying because their parents are shit. Kids need to be raised (aka trained) around the clock and at best, by example.

Now look at the people around you not giving a fuck. They just wanted to have a kid (for themselves) and don't give a shit how to best raise it.

It's only logical that the kid will behave badly.

JStheHammer · 2018-06-04T17:14:38+00:00

yes.

Edit. I mean I don't hate, I just don't want them around, don't want to have any, etc.

silive · 2018-06-04T17:35:05+00:00

I hate their parents. Mostly the "strong and independent" single mothers who believe that the world is revolving around them. Lots of them are too busy on Facebook/Tinder and such while spinning the multiple plates and riding the cock carousel in search of new simping dupes to relieve them of their wallets. So they simply do not have time for kids, naturally..

Science4Lawlz · 2018-06-04T20:33:24+00:00

I love my nieces and nephews to death but I think it's only because I can hand them back to their parents. Kids are amazing and wonderful but as an individual, I can't imagine having them. There are 5 main reasons why:

Many women who want kids have them for selfish reasons such as "I want something/someone to love me unconditionally", "It's what a loving couple should do","My parents want grandchildren", or "Who's going to take care of us when we're older?"
Many women after they have children change completely and turn evil or lose the love they have for the man and put it all into the kid. The once attractive little tight body and sweet sensibilities that drew you to her soon become a fat slob and irritable all the time plus you have another human to look after.
Many women don't know what they are getting into, seriously...they blindly rush into having a child and when it comes, they look like idiots trying to manage what they thought was going to be an easy task. I've heard numerous women say they regret it.
I've seen so many men destroyed by women and their kids, I've seen grown men break down and cry and it's not because they didn't see it coming but because the women lied to them or put up a facade then changed after the child was born, see # 2. You lose all freedom in the colloquial sense of the term, I've heard men (even my own father) say he wish he would have waited, in other words, they regret the kids.
The female wants to raise them under their rules/ways of life. It's pure abuse and the woman thinks that their way is the only way because they put in the work for 9 months. I've seen women call the kids theirs and the man is just a sperm donor.

I'm not saying all women are like that and I have met a few amazing mom/wives out there who are angelic in every sense of the word (then again I don't know what goes on behind closed doors) but a majority of them are demonic selfish whores. Guard yourself gentlemen and don't fall for the cunning tricks that women put up. If you can, like I have, find a female who stays the hell out of your way and is childless by choice and does everything in her power to prevent childbirth. If not, then walk away. A child is a HUGE responsibility and I'm lucky I don't have any. Women are so foolish and don't realize what they are getting into, guard yourself, your goals, your heart, and your mind. Walk your own way. Leave a legacy that will inspire millions of children rather than raising one dysfunctional one.

gershmonite · 2018-06-04T17:18:10+00:00

Kids are like cats, if you don't like them they stick with you.

2018-06-04T20:13:47+00:00

Yes. More like I hate the way that parents let them scream in the middle of a store, and generally a lack of interest on the parents behalf. There is absolutely no discipline anymore.

sku009 · 2018-06-04T17:08:47+00:00

I love kids. But I don't want mine because of corrupt family court and the gynocentric world.

2018-06-04T18:15:18+00:00

I don't hate kids, it's more like Im glad I dont have any. Im about to turn 30 this month, and 3 days ago we had a birthday party for my neice at my dads house.

All the neighborhood kids were there to use the pool and what not. The whole time all the parents were having to fuss and worry. Mean while I was able to sit in the shade, have some drinks and enjoy a book on my kindle. Didnt have to get up one time and i know for a fact I had more fun than every other adult there, excluding my dad because he has a young wife to watch their 9 year old (yes i have a 1/2 sibling 20 years younger than me).

I didnt hate the kids, just would have hated to waste a beautiful saturday by the pool.

anongogogo · 2018-06-04T19:24:43+00:00

Just the spoil ones who act like a stuck up piece of shit. Also they're parents. You poop out a baby so now I have to yield and tolerate it? FUCK OFF

Be__Live44 · 2018-06-04T20:40:32+00:00

Not a fan at all. Especially the whiny bratty ones.

LOUD SCREACH FOLLOWED BY INCOHERENT BABBLE "B-b-b-ut I want it!!!!" Rolling on the ground hyperventilating

Nah. Keep that shit.

Cest7 · 2018-06-04T19:16:27+00:00

It should be legal to beat other's kids.

There was one guy pushing his passed out kid around the store in a cart, came up to the register:

"Sorry i don't think i can ring through your kid"

"... Its a return"

NeverNeverLandIsNow · 2018-06-04T19:58:02+00:00

Not sure I would say hate but I definitely have a very strong dislike of children, never understood why people like them, I wonder if there is a gene that gets expressed for "wanting or liking" children, if so then either I don't have that gene or it never got expressed. And for you kid lovers, I am aware I was a kid at one time, irregardless I hate being around them or having to deal with them in any capacity other than walking away from them.

Now pets I almost love universally (especially dogs) unless you like snakes or spiders, then not interested in the least.

TerminallyOdd · 2018-06-04T20:26:33+00:00

Just like anyone else, it's a case by case basis. When they start developing their own little personalities, some are adorable, and some are a pain in the ass. Either way, I can see how it would be a bit much to deal with in large doses, which is why I have no interest in having any, but for the most part (in small doses), I don't think they're so bad.

Shortmanking · 2018-06-04T20:38:19+00:00

No, not at all, what I hate are shitty parents and most parents today are shitty.

LJHova · 2018-06-04T20:58:11+00:00

I'm with you. Kids are an irritation at best.

hermopietrobon · 2018-06-04T22:02:07+00:00

I am absolutely disgusted by kids.

Anytime I go to a supermarket and it's full of mothers and little kids I feel like throwing up, mate.

These little shits are like jerky bags of sticky meat that has snots and fucking sweat all over it, twitching around and creating havoc. That and their mothers always bending over for everybody to look at their hole that they release feces from just makes me go sick in the stomach.

And the smell, oh boy the smell. The stench of too many women and kids in the same venue - cheap deodorants, conditioners and sweat, it's just ungodly.

kharlowe · 2018-06-05T13:10:56+00:00

I don't hate them. They're very tasty if marinated in lemon and butter sauce.

BLUEUPTON · 2018-06-04T18:00:25+00:00

Kids are just a mirror of their parents

Mojo_666 · 2018-06-04T18:21:52+00:00

I don’t hate them but I am really not a fan of I’m honest, they can be funny at times but mostly just annoying.

KaitouNala · 2018-06-04T19:02:52+00:00

feel like your problem is more about bad parenting, we behaved when we were in public (me and my sisters) because if we fucked up we were getting spanked, and we feared spankings.

if we fucked up and continue fucking up the amount of lashes were cumulative so yeah, i don't recall as many "wild child" types being around when i was a kid... then again its almost illegal for you to discipline your kids now a days.

Blogginginvicecity · 2018-06-04T20:54:10+00:00

Squeaky wheels get all the attention.

Docbear64 · 2018-06-04T21:42:08+00:00

I love kids , the most unfortunate thing about dealing with women is that they can use the kids as a weapon and often times do.

If I could have a kid in a way that I could be solely responsible for them I'd welcome it but that would be years from now. At the moment I'm too selfish and I have lots of nieces and nephews to shower with that same love.

kupakuma · 2018-06-04T23:21:27+00:00

I hate shitty parents.

Tre_Walker · 2018-06-04T23:35:20+00:00

Hate with all your heart and soul? That is pretty severe and something to work on. I don't like hanging out with them in general. They have their moments when I enjoy them. I appreciate their honesty. But in my lifetime it was simply too dangerous to spend time around kids because of women and false accusations or parents being too defensive. So the benefit to risk ratio made sure I never spent much time with them. Maybe that is exactly what the feminists want.

2018-06-04T23:47:53+00:00

Indifferent towards kids is more like it.

LordKolkonut · 2018-06-05T00:04:11+00:00

A kid is almost purely the result of the parents. Children are like dogs - they need to be trained. In fact, a three year old and an adult dog have roughly the same intelligence. A well-trained child is pleasant, though rare. Most parents just let the child do whatever, without setting boundaries or trying to teach the child anything.

VinnieMatch69 · 2018-06-05T05:05:10+00:00

the same thing that ruined women (liberalism in the form of feminism) ruined kids in the form of creating shitty, liberal parents. By "liberal", I mean parents who worship their kids rather than punish. Spanking is far more effective than liberal Time Out BS. Today's helicopter parents have created thin-skinned, always-right, fragile-ego'd little fuckstick kids and it's entirely the fault of horrible liberal values.

Fubar08gamer · 2018-06-05T08:22:20+00:00

So I work at a nationally renowned institution for violent, trauma, ASD, behavioral school/residential facility for kids under 21.

In all my years here, from personal observation, one thing rings true for almost all the kids. They come from homes with single mothers and they all lack two very distinct things: discipline, and inability to accept the word "no".

Sound familiar?

mantits- · 2018-06-05T00:21:06+00:00

I genuinely hate everybody.

stent00 · 2018-06-04T18:38:09+00:00

I have 3. They are one of the BEST things that have happened in my life. Paying all the child support is quite crippling though... But I made my own bed by marrying and have to OWN my life.

Non-PC-Guy · 2018-06-04T18:57:12+00:00

I like kids, but I only have a real fondness for my own.

maggot_brain79 · 2018-06-04T21:32:40+00:00

I don't hate them but I can only really deal with them in short bursts. Like, my sister and brother both have kids and when they come over or for holidays and stuff, I can hang around them for about a maximum of 4 hours but eventually I just start to get annoyed. They're okay as long as they're well-behaved and not just complete assholes, but I can't deal with them for much longer than about 4 hours.

I'll never have any of my own unless it happens by accident or miracle, both of which are not likely at all. I wouldn't want to bring children into this flaming pit of scum forgotten by God that is western society. Besides, my genetics aren't great. I'm predisposed for cardiac issues, diabetes, mental health issues and a predilection for anything even mildly addictive. Even if I wanted them, odds are I wouldn't due to the inherent risk in impregnating your garden-variety thot these days and I have no desire to put up with a woman's shit for very long or end up paying her way for 18-21 years. I'm celibate since last year and intend to remain that way until I travel to a place where prostitution is legal and regulated. I wouldn't want any of my own anyhow because I don't find being wrist deep in baby shit to be all that intriguing, nor do I like noise and chaos in-general. If I were to find a NAWALT and change my mind later, I'd probably try to adopt after the age of 10 or so because after that most of the annoying shit is out of the way for the most part. Regardless, I like to be self-reliant and free to do what I please, and that lifestyle really isn't compatible with having children of any age. Pets pretty much sate any need I may have to be 'fatherly' or have companionship, particularly cats because they aren't needy.

I like my nieces and nephews and I'll kick it with them when they're around but much longer than 4 hours and my patience begins to wear a bit thin. Once they're a bit older that time period will probably expand because older kids aren't quite as chaotic, messy and noisy. Well, if they're raised right anyhow. Some people remain little shits well into their 20s. Nonetheless, kids are typically obnoxious, loud, they smell, they make big messes, they have sticky hands, they have to root around in everything, they don't put shit back where they found it, etc. Too chaotic for me to put up with for very long periods but kind of fun to do activities with and talk to from time to time. Sometimes I'll help my nephew put together model kits or build some Legos. It's kind of fun to do kid things once in a while.

I find that far too many people have kids just because having kids is something to do, then once the kids are here they don't give a shit about teaching, nurturing and supporting them and either ignore them, fuck up their life or try to live vicariously through them. Plus a lot of people have kids when they really aren't in any position to have kids. They're broke as shit, they want to party and travel, don't have a suitable home, and they have kids 'by accident' and then the kids are in for a world of shit all because some dumbfucks couldn't wear a rubber. Then you have entire generations born that are entirely reliant on daddy government to provide and stay in the system their entire lives or end up living a life of crime or general nonproductive shit. They have kids as a sort of 'life goal' thing but never have any plans after that and they just dump the poor little bastards on this earth, in this shit society, to fend for themselves with no preparation.

But no, I don't hate kids. They're alright. I donate regularly to some charities that help or do nice things for kids. Wouldn't want any of my own though.

bhfanatik · 2018-06-04T22:14:48+00:00

I don't hate them but don't want them around me. I talk to them like they're adults, I can't fake the stupid voice most adults use when they speak to children.

NotMyWomen · 2018-06-04T22:57:02+00:00

Sometimes i think so.

They’re all loud and annoying, all have serious staring problems, and no sense of personal space.

Pretty much the top three behaviors that I hate above all else, and they practice all of them, all the time.

NietzscheExplosion · 2018-06-04T22:57:26+00:00

I'd never take my kid to a restaurant except under some kind of external family force, like grandma's 80th or something. Then it's one of those shitty one's with a million high chairs... in that case, you don't like it, then fuck off.

When I'm in a public place though, my kid will fucking run wild. I am raising a fucking conqueror and you don't like the public.... then don't be in a public place.

2018-06-04T23:04:33+00:00

The moms always scold the young boys but anything the young girls do is so funny and adorable.

NewMunster · 2018-06-04T23:07:56+00:00

I don't hate them, but I wouldn't cope with raising them.

squidracer · 2018-06-05T00:02:32+00:00

The biggest problem with kids is that they aren't made for modern life as a kid.

With school and all the obligations kids have (not to mention being drug out of bed every morning), they are basically working full time jobs. Which makes them exhausted and wired since they are, well still kids

TheDevilsAdvokaat · 2018-06-05T00:14:50+00:00

I'm MGTOW (or will be, once i get divorced) but I don't hate kids at all, I like them.

DanTheMGTOW · 2018-06-05T00:23:59+00:00

I don't hate them in that way, but then again my family has no problems with spanking their kids.

kayfab · 2018-06-05T01:34:18+00:00

Depends on the kids, some can be attaching while others are just little brats......

Autisticus · 2018-06-05T01:41:44+00:00

I have enough trouble living with dogs. No kids for me thanks.

AlternativeFile · 2018-06-05T02:13:41+00:00

I would let my wife have them while I take care of the rest (house, food, etc). Having children can be done effectively and still have money and free time.

But now there's a Damocles sword on my head if she gets bored and leave. Until then, I have my 3 nieces which I love, and that will be enough for my genes.

wathon2 · 2018-06-05T05:05:14+00:00

I just don't see the point of having kid. I'm neither exceptionally smart, athletic, or good looking; the world doesn't need my genetic.

Having kid just means putting on unnecessary financial and metal stress. Plus, you have to deal with the kid's mother, ain't nobody got time for that.

TaintedPills · 2018-06-05T05:25:05+00:00

Just remember you were one

Ketsa · 2018-06-05T08:06:53+00:00

I really like kids.

Only applies to the few that have been educated.

Mchooofer · 2018-06-05T13:15:45+00:00

I hate small crying infants. But some kids are charming, those I adore.

ssmugy · 2018-06-06T01:37:00+00:00

ssmugy · 2018-06-04T20:36:41+00:00

Kids are great when their parents care about them (usually). Weren't you a kid once?

rtmlex · 2018-06-04T17:11:25+00:00

I like children for their innocence and honesty. Things I appreciate most.

You are a fucked up person. Get help and don’t kill anyone.

Title	Does anyone else here genuinely hate kids?
Author	Ad4m2000
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Date	June 4, 2018 4:57 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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I am absolutely disgusted by kids.