Fell for it. Again.

LetsStartFlame · 2018-12-12T08:45:03+00:00

For fuck sake dude, BLOCK HER ON EVERYTHING.

leemming · 2018-12-12T08:58:53+00:00

Blocking her for good helps, mate. She is probably trying to keep you around just in case her new relationshit doesn't work.

Find a high intensity exercise, you can't feel anything when your heart is at 170bpm

kyledontcare · 2018-12-12T08:53:01+00:00

You're signing up for more heartbreak then?

Disbursed-operant · 2018-12-12T09:07:53+00:00

Harsh words but not mean....

Block the bitch because you're doing this to your own damned self. Get GONE and stay that way, or be a puppet. You need to get a thicker skin if a few text messages and memes hurt your feelings.

Full mgtow... it's the best commitment you can make for yourself.

CraigMcCloud · 2018-12-12T09:17:28+00:00

Some men will always cherish their good feefees and memories at the price of sinking in a sea of despair and emotional darkness. My cousin is the same. Despite all the benefits he reobtained after his breakup he only sees the void his woman created. It's infuriating to see this brainwashing. She brought very little, in fact she brought a huge baggage of BS in his life. And yet this breakup has the same effects that a miscarriage has on a couple.

DWShimoda · 2018-12-12T13:27:10+00:00

And -- hate to say it -- but it's almost guaranteed that you will do so yet again...

...and again... and again.

Chief_Niggums · 2018-12-12T11:02:02+00:00

WOMP WOMP

Red_Pill_Dynamics · 2018-12-12T20:37:35+00:00

The blowback here can be neccessary for growth, but I digress.

Many of us have been in your shoes. As men, we actually do love women so it's hard to just "block her" and forget it ever happened.

Is that the best option? Absolutely.

Is it the hardest? Of course.

It takes time. It takes strength and it always takes its toll, until you end up like me: callous and unable to love women.

I'm at the stage that I think I actually forgot how to love a woman...I've tried...its just not there since the redpill kicked in years ago.

So despite what some men think, don't be too hard on yourself. Accept womens nature and just know she doesn't love this new guy either. His time is already running out.

One day he'll be in your shoes, too. We all end up there eventually.

Do yourself a favor. Don't block her. Let her txt and txt and txt and relish every moment knowing her angle won't work and become mentally strong enough that it WON'T. That's a REAL BLOCK. Anyone can use a phone to block, not all can mentally do it.

Its up to you.

Older_Miggy · 2018-12-12T09:17:31+00:00

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Highborn_Hellest · 2018-12-12T12:05:13+00:00

memes of the day : 10/10 would meme again. Memes are life bro.
It's understandable. Mark my words dude, if you don't block her on everything she'll try to monkeybranch to you back at one point.

You better ghost her.

Docbear64 · 2018-12-12T12:55:54+00:00

Exes are exes for a reason, it doesn't matter why she eft you or you chose to leave her something was wrong with the relationship ... there's no reason to keep someone who you are emotionally weakened to like that in your life.

Slideri812 · 2018-12-12T13:54:47+00:00

Brother, let the past be the past. Stop looking backwards, you're gonna miss what's right in front of you: your own life.

Bitches always like to keep in touch, they want to know they are doing better than you, they also know it can be like twisting the knife just a little more from a distance. And in some cases they will cuck and simp the ex.

Block her on everything. Also this is why WE NEVER RESPOND TO AN EX REACHING OUT!!! It's always a trap bro, and the only causality is you.

Stay strong, stay the course. MGTOW lifestyle WILL take you where you want to go. It will lead to the wholeness and self validation that serves us men better than anything external ever will, especially a female.

cafeorange · 2018-12-12T08:47:32+00:00

Hey man. Come back as a stronger person.

LetsStartFlame · 2018-12-12T10:24:21+00:00

My gf broke up with me then asked me to come over to have fun lmao

Most_Insane_F2P · 2018-12-12T11:57:11+00:00

Which men uses IG?

Personally, I would only open one for specific business/marketing purposes. And that statement is even dubious.

HC_ButtCex · 2018-12-12T12:45:32+00:00

Make a DIY pussy pocket mate

chart6653 · 2018-12-12T13:32:48+00:00

It's painful OP but I'm glad you saw that, for your own future growth. Remember, they ALWAYS keep as many options open as they can. They are PhD's in monkeybranching.

peterson2004 · 2018-12-12T13:48:08+00:00

why you validating her? you have your value tied up in some woman bro. i think you need some michael jackson, man in the mirror therapy. your value is nothing more than what you believe in yourself.

Saturn1981 · 2018-12-12T17:11:18+00:00

Thank men

I appreciate this board

Bazat91 · 2018-12-12T17:19:11+00:00

Block her. Become content with the fact that you must block her and never hear from her again. After that, it will take some time, but in the end you will be emotionally free from her. It's not easy at first, that's for sure, but it's the only way. Also fap like a maniac in the begining cuz it will take your mind off of her.

flee_market · 2018-12-12T17:36:34+00:00

Some part of you is always going to love her no matter how badly she treats you. That's because masculine love is different from feminine love. You won't find any women sacrificing themselves for the good of her man. They just drop you as soon as they sense they've extracted everything they can out of you.

There is absolutely nothing to be gained from maintaining contact with her. You're just extending the pain you have to go through.

TimVertex · 2018-12-12T13:02:12+00:00

You have attach a lot of your self worth to your ex. You maybe be living the mgtow life-style however, you lack the most important part of mgtow and that is self actualization. Try looking for a new meaning in life.

Lorddevonshire · 2018-12-12T13:22:45+00:00

I'd estimate that about 70% of my ex gf have tried to test the water again. Never went back to any of them no matter how much I wanted to. Keep working on yourself, you'll be glad you did.

Kwen_Oellogg · 2018-12-12T13:41:32+00:00

Sometimes it's hard to realize how destructive the plantation is. I think deep down we all have a desire for the fantasy of the unicorn to be real. But it's hard painful lesson's like this that end up hammering in the real truth. AWALT.

strangerthing7 · 2018-12-12T14:03:08+00:00

Don't beat yourself up, learn from this. It's time to move on pal.

slayer-booty · 2018-12-12T16:50:16+00:00

If you're in hopes of converting an old LTR to a friends with benefits, it doesn't work that way. Once a woman has manipulated you to commit to her, that is the standard now so unless you want to get back with her and continue the LTR, block that bitch and never allow her to be in contact with you ever again.

Saturn1981 · 2018-12-12T18:57:31+00:00

Oh, the light side of the story is that i checked her new bf’s IG and he hates Trump. Total liberal idiot.

Enjoy!

fasterfind · 2018-12-12T23:30:07+00:00

You're still sensitive about her, that's normal. Being hurt isn't because you strayed from MGTOW, it's because you got hurt and that shit takes years to get over.

You'll get over her quicker if you cut all contact for a while. Other people need to replace what was lost, until that happens, pain continues. I.e. pain is conditional, so take control of your conditions. That's why people cut contact. Pain is conditional. Control the conditions. Find new conditions.

NeverNeverLandIsNow · 2018-12-13T14:13:13+00:00

Hey at least you came here instead of caving to BP fantasy. Now use your big brain and block that bitch, you were never hers, it was just your turn. She is either looking for a backup provider or trying to see if you are a better deal now, either way she is likely full of shit and does not really care about you, have some self-respect and block her right now, yep take your phone out right now and block her. Delete all contact info , go ahead....done yet? Feel better?

Life-is-Crazy · 2018-12-12T15:10:36+00:00

is she......somewhat interesting or something?

Freefrombitches123 · 2018-12-13T00:37:30+00:00

Embrace mgtow

Title	Fell for it. Again.
Author	Saturn1981
Upvotes	73
Comments	52
Date	December 12, 2018 6:39 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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And -- hate to say it -- but it's almost guaranteed that you will do so yet again...