I am a grey man.

DangZagnut · 2019-05-06T20:06:30+00:00

Well done. Instead of grey, I’m more like a bum who acts like the village idiot.

Malbek604 · 2019-05-06T21:38:42+00:00

Good strategy. Reminds me of a classic Phil Hartman skit from the good days of SNL in the early nineties. It was a ad for a luxury car that looked like a wrecked beater from the outside. He was such an enormously talented man, he could make my sides split from the most mundane of topics. Taken from us by his crazy wife.

mongolian_usa · 2019-05-06T19:43:14+00:00

Smart strategy. I plan to do a similar one and live in a trailer.

Dmapguy · 2019-05-06T19:43:57+00:00

Winning. I hope I'm at your level in a few years however would most likely build a small house. Unless the collapse happens.

eduardkoopman · 2019-05-06T20:47:35+00:00

I moved in with my paren again about 2.5 years ago, to also look like a loser.

Now i'm upgrading to a house on my own again. It was because i could't handle the treatement anymore, of not getting much respect. It weighted to heavy on my self percieved self confidence. Because more people stopped listening to me, and I having a hard time getting heard. Family members treating me like a nobody, or the people at the board taking nothing in from what I said/want, well meant advice on how to improve life/income and not to be a loser, etc..

I hate to admit this, and I wish I was stronger, and I wish it hadn't gotten to me as much as it did. But this (above) got me irritated and angry(ish) with people. And also unfortunately my self confindence feeling, is to an extend related to the feedback I get back from the world. I wish I could life, from the oustide looking, like a big time loser or hobbo and not get affected as I did.

RedPilledSimp · 2019-05-06T19:44:52+00:00

That's it OP. And remember: treat women in unavoidable situations with all the respect and dignity. 2 birds in 1 stone: you'll "alienate" them even further, yet they'll feel "flattered" by you being a gentleman. Thus giving them no ground for metooing...

Infinitewisdom1984 · 2019-05-06T20:08:44+00:00

I really like this, and have known a few guys who did/do this.

Another thing you want to have is enough bullets for any number of desperate hordes descending upon your safe house. This is why the 2nd amendment is so important - my right to fire as many bullets as quickly as possible into the direction of oncoming invaders should economic disaster hit

immaluckez · 2019-05-07T00:46:53+00:00

I'm a businessman making 200k. I dress nice, I'm physically fit, and I rent a big beautiful lake house all for myself. I believe looking good translates into feeling good. I get tons of attention from young, beautiful women almost every day and I just reject reject reject.

I tell them I've been celibate for 3 years and I'm no longer interested in females. I'm always polite about it and I don't say anything directly anti-women. I love watching their egos deflate and the desperation kick into high gear! And yes I'm smart enough to never be alone in the same room as them.

I'm about to launch business #2. I intend to get stupid rich so I can start a family with a nanny/surrogate by the time I'm 40. It's still possible guys. My income went 5x since I walked away from women and my net worth has exploded. I live like a modern day King with every luxury, and I still somehow manage to save the majority of my income!

Fleshlight was a game changer for me. Its a superior wet hole in every way. If you haven't already, buy one!

user_miki · 2019-05-06T20:10:36+00:00

I heard about one guy billionaire that live and managed all his businesses from a container.

ObeseOrphan · 2019-05-06T21:46:17+00:00

I really didn’t know this needed a theory. Live by necessity and not by vanity. Stop and think “do I really need this?” Usually the answer is no.

NoThirst · 2019-05-07T01:06:37+00:00

...the worse thing a man can do to himself is to assume debt. Women put men in debt. Live simply.

blackpilled_bhikkhu · 2019-05-06T20:57:56+00:00

Multiple questions:

What does your asset portfolio look like? Is it diversified or do you only own electronic money in your bank account?
Apart from firearms and basic survival, what other skills are you trained in/plan to acquire?
What is your ultimate objective in life?

LiveTheTruth321 · 2019-05-06T20:18:53+00:00

I have nothing to ask. Just commending you.

2019-05-06T20:19:06+00:00

Fuck bro. How much extra energy do you have now; living the dream?

Do you plan on traveling?

Pooddit · 2019-05-07T01:34:25+00:00

I live like this, too. Can't give a real answer as to why, though. I have a 2006 beater car. I wear the same shit clothes, don't have a job, may have autism, depression, idk. I live on the same amount of money each month and eat the same foods each day. But I did work a lot in my early 20s bought VTSAX with the money so I'm sitting on some good savings. I like to see how people treat someone who they see as low status/wealth/value. The answer is they treat you like you are shit, the ones that don't are alright.

Oeste89 · 2019-05-07T03:03:37+00:00

Same here man. I rent a 10x8 room at a friend's house for $500/mo rent and utilities, drive a 2013 Hyundai Accent that used to be a rental car so it has stains in the seats and cigarette burn marks in the side panels, dont wear or buy expensive things. I'm saving thousands of dollars now. I was once married and didn't save a dime even though we were both working. Thankfully I got out of that nightmare before it was too late and before kids came into the equation. Keep going strong brothers.

MattFoley79 · 2019-05-07T10:42:41+00:00

Working IT and living below your means are two of the most effective ways to be invisible to twats.

Alephone1 · 2019-05-06T23:25:08+00:00

STEM guy here myself.

My question is what are your plans 5 years, 10 years, 20 years down the road?

Honest questions. I'm ok where I am right now, too, but I've got to start looking long term. I begin the management or entrepreneurial route that changes a lot of things.

It's different in your 40's than in your 20's.

Again, not meaning it as a dick question.

I'm interested in anyone who is going to deal with the same issues.

Tyrotoxisms · 2019-05-06T19:40:18+00:00

Rule number 9. Glad you're doing well.

MiddleAgedMGTOW · 2019-05-06T20:41:26+00:00

Nicely done brother!

MuleFool42 · 2019-05-06T20:57:16+00:00

Love this.

ziggmuff · 2019-05-07T03:48:04+00:00

How old are you?

2019-05-06T23:12:10+00:00

My favorite Chinese place of all time is called u/chenskitchen.

It was in Wisconsin

mechdemon · 2019-05-07T00:37:36+00:00

I didn't realize this is a thing; I've been like this my whole life.

noah521252 · 2019-05-07T03:12:03+00:00

My question is do you have a urge to fuck women? How do you deal with this? I feel like the urge to want sex from hot women will always be there, and I want to get rid of it so I can focus 100% on my life goals.

2019-05-07T06:46:51+00:00

same. i shave maybe once every 4 months now. like i care if i have a piece of chicken stuck in my glorious wizards beard. get lost. i own my home. have 6 digits in savings, haven't spent more than $1000 a month on anything in years. just save and keep anonymous.

shatterthecrystal63 · 2019-05-06T20:35:36+00:00

No questions here. I know what I must do. Thanks, OP. Cheers brother.

TheOnlyThing-Sufjan · 2019-05-07T01:52:48+00:00

What would you say is the one thing you can really save money on (except women and the things you mentioned), so for example certain foods, or habits, or not buying or buying certain things in bulk for example?

ppdeny · 2019-05-07T02:49:57+00:00

For real...that's a great life. F those who think their house, clothes, car, etc., makes their life better when all it is is massive debt.

northstar1618012345 · 2019-05-07T03:10:39+00:00

that's great, but to honestly, I would qualify 5 mil as fuck you money.

IIceWeasellzz · 2019-05-07T04:26:41+00:00

Are you me?

im literally exactly that with no car since i drive my moms (lol #actuallyaloser) but im 21

QuantumSanta · 2019-05-07T04:28:57+00:00

No questions, just admiration. Sweet.

hakoonamatata9 · 2019-05-07T05:40:22+00:00

How to hide in plain sight?

You gotta master the art of standing so still that you become invisible.

starkfuture · 2019-05-07T05:47:13+00:00

I make about the same and I am frugal too - roommates, bicycling to work, max $300/year budget for attair. I've been doing it for about 10 years now. It is great.

xkulp8 · 2019-05-07T06:16:30+00:00

My wardrobe is literally all gray. Light colors get dingy and black fades, but you can wear gray clothes for years and they just fade to a different shade of gray.

AbsoluteSereniti · 2019-05-07T07:26:58+00:00

What kind of job is it? I have a degree in physics currently in software engineering role but thinking of pursuing a real physics job but yeah I don’t earn anywhere near as you.

CountOrloff · 2019-05-07T12:51:40+00:00

Low profile. The best move, always.

annonymous93 · 2019-05-07T13:02:41+00:00

I love this

jason1009 · 2019-05-07T22:31:14+00:00

You are on the right path friend, but 50k is not "fuck you money". Keep working on that.

gorebwn · 2019-05-08T12:47:43+00:00

Same dude - same

Rafique678 · 2019-05-07T00:56:32+00:00

How do you fullfil your need of a female companion and sex?

Title	I am a grey man.
Author	ChensKitchen
Upvotes	258
Comments	93
Date	May 6, 2019 7:38 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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