Losing desire to pump and dump

peguy2000 · 2019-09-22T22:54:08+00:00

Got bored of pnd aswell, i just masturbate if i have the urge now. The ROI of PUA is just too little and a big time waste

MothMonsterMan79 · 2019-09-22T23:29:26+00:00

Just get a high end escort or sugar baby once in a while of you have the money. They know the deal, and as I always say, "I'm not paying them to stay, I'm paying them to LEAVE."

MarcusAurileus70 · 2019-09-22T23:21:33+00:00

Dude. Post but clarity is a thing. Once you get passed that initial urge to shoot your load you’ll be master of your own destiny.

Encrypted587 · 2019-09-22T22:56:15+00:00

You had a full sack that's the problem should have had a tactical 🖐💦🙂

Red_Pill_Dynamics · 2019-09-22T23:38:37+00:00

Same.

I'm getting too old for this shit - not the sex, all the other bullshit that goes with it including these treacherous thots.

HotAndColdSlaw · 2019-09-23T00:37:00+00:00

What is the difference between pump and dump and jacking it? Maybe pussy feels a bit better, a lot better if you get lucky, but either way, you come.

If there isn't any sort of an emotional connection (with p+d there isn't), the best you can hope for is some interesting conversation.

The down-side is that you open yourself to all sorts of possible problems. STDs, pregnancy, false accusations, wanna-be girlfriends, etc.

the game is not worth the candle......

NoConsent2019 · 2019-09-22T23:03:12+00:00

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NohoTwoPointOh · 2019-09-23T01:04:05+00:00

How old are you? Your "dirty thirties" will be as bad as your twenties in terms of libido. But once the forties roll through, your libido drops. It is much easier for your mind to overpower the cock.

I'll be coming up on 5 years of monkhood next year. I get horny spells a few times a year but that's it. Sometimes, doing heavy lifts like squats will trigger the fangs for a day or two. Alcohol loosens things up (which is why I try to avoid overindulging). Otherwise, mind over meat stick.

If you are younger than your late thirties, you're a bona fide, pure-D badass. My dick was harder than times in '29 in my 30's. There's no way I could have controlled the urges back then. But that's why I'm paying a king's ransom of child support now, ain't it?

LifeIsStillTestingMe · 2019-09-23T00:49:42+00:00

I mean a "woman" who can easily be picked up and fucked doesn't respect herself, so how can she expect anyone to respect her? Idk smh. But that's probably the reasoning behind feeling the uselessness of it all, she's not respectable, just good for being used, by her own choices.

carbonblob · 2019-09-23T00:47:06+00:00

What should be the most natural thing in the world has now become a minefeld.

There are strings attached. They can be pulled anytime - between now up until your death.

If you gain any kind of wealth or notoriety in the future, the interaction you just had might be construed as insensitive - at best. Insensitivity is possibly worse than anything, because it's so subtle, psychological, and like everything men do - oppressive at its core. Like colonialism. ;-)

You could pay her 130K to forget your name, but there is no dollar amount high enough to silence a woman who her friends and legal counsel have convinced that's she's owed.

Iqbal40862715 · 2019-09-22T23:12:42+00:00

Hell yeah - especially since they can shiv you at any moment with a false pound me too charge

It’s a boner killer. Just use your fleshlight and things will be A OK

Outbeforeeveryone · 2019-09-23T00:40:15+00:00

You should enter monk mode soon.

Let it happen naturally. Don't fight it.

voshler · 2019-09-22T23:32:03+00:00

Ive been feeling less like fucking and a lot more like fapping for a while now. Dunno if that counts. Ive never been really sexually active and go years without fucking. Most sex Ive had in a year was about 10 times in a year or so.

Sumfuc · 2019-09-23T01:39:46+00:00

Blowjobs are all I want from them now.

rocket_man_33 · 2019-09-23T01:53:05+00:00

Yeah for the guys who do No fap challenges, I just can’t do that. The urges get way too strong for me if I’m not emptying my gonads, and I can seriously feel the change in my thinking, I see a woman and I want to have sex with her even though deep down I know it’s not worth it.. but if I’m regularly taking care of myself before I go out, I’m more relaxed and don’t feel the urge to rubberneck and want to get involved with a random chick.. this doesn’t mean you have to be masturbating nonstop either, you just occasionally make sure your balls are empty so your brain is clear and then your wallet stays full.

Helikzhan · 2019-09-23T02:41:57+00:00

Women don't do anything for me anymore. Maybe because I'm much older but the rationale has kicked in that there's nothing they do for me to improve my life.

Sex is still good but it's not worth the trouble. Just get a fleshlight and a porn subscription. Don't fall for the trap of needing a woman to validate your existence.

Forevery0ung12 · 2019-09-22T22:45:44+00:00

STDs and potential rape accusations? No, thank you. Not worth it.

Datrandomguy33 · 2019-09-22T23:51:41+00:00

Being shamed for masturbation is wrong. These women make me sad inside with their self created drama. Like most of them really just needed a dad around honestly and it shows. Sad

MeaslesPlease · 2019-09-23T02:41:36+00:00

I haven't even had sex before and I basically incapable of loving these whores now that I know the truth

drock2417 · 2019-09-23T05:36:05+00:00

All the advice about getting a hooker as a viable solution. Hmm let’s see- 1000x more likely to catch a sexually transmitted disease. Chance of being convicted of a sex crime. Chance of getting rolled. The list goes on. Not good advice people- it’s illegal for a reason.

derpaderp84 · 2019-09-23T03:39:29+00:00

When I saw call girls, it was the same thing, it was fun sticking my dick in at first but then after a couple of thrusts the damn routine got boring but it didn't matter as I'm terrible at lasting long and usually bust a nut within a 15 seconds to a minute. Then afterwards, I don't mind the conversation as it will be about typical everyday shit or restaurants but afterwards it just kind of dies off and I don't care for her or I just want to see another chick. Instead now if I want clarity, jackin' it works. It's essentially free. Though honestly I'd say the next best thing is a sex doll/sex robot especially if it looks like the type of woman you like. Hence why I'm saving up for a sex doll and fixing it to look like pornstars Stevie Shae/Dani Daniels.

nigga_phil · 2019-09-23T04:28:28+00:00

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J_J_O_O_S_S_E_E · 2019-09-23T04:49:16+00:00

I really wish that post nut clarity would be something a bit more permanent.

7firewire · 2019-09-23T05:23:46+00:00

Yeah. I've been on the pump and dump train for over 10 years and have just had the same feelings.

We really dont need thots to be happy.

Otwasocks · 2019-09-23T05:49:12+00:00

Literally me last night. Chick was a starfish and didn’t even blow my load... had to kick her out and have another come thru to finish off what the other had started. In the end just felt empty and uninterested. Hard to be alone hard to be with someone else.

WorldlyEffort · 2019-09-23T05:58:38+00:00

Jerking off is better. Not like your hand can accuse you of rape.

ass-my-eat · 2019-09-23T16:27:10+00:00

MGTOW monk is the evolution of men out of this gynocentric hell.

I never found joy in pump and dump, it’s pointless and you give up all your power over to her and if she soo chooses can accuse you of sexual assault. Not worth it at all.

2019-09-22T23:02:23+00:00

Yep when I was in my 20s I always met up with women where I worked at a small business. My boss was cool with it. Now I’m 31 and would rather put my energy into my house projects, hobbies. Women were a time suck in my 20s and I had a lot of fun no doubt. I was semi blue pilled then too so I thought if an awesome woman came along see what happens....haha nope AWALT.

Docbear64 · 2019-09-22T23:43:19+00:00

I had a long TRP / PUA run myself and yeah eventually the hunt stopped feeling worth while . You have to work ot manipulate these manipulative creatures into bed . I'd say , express, or behave however it took working my way through my player script, get the panties, add another one to my notch count and I jsut started to feel empty .

It got tiring and lal I could think is I worked my ass off to become my best self to trick this useless cum dumpster with a nice face , tits, ass or all of the above for a night .. I could keep gaming her for weeks or months but to what end ?

I got bored ...started feeling like a living dildo and then started to embrace MGTOW and monk mode more . My peace , sanity , and self respect is worth more than these THOTS and HOES . I just had to run through enough of them to realize it.

redveinlover · 2019-09-23T02:43:13+00:00

Get yourself an Autoblow. If you see these broads as treacherous thots that mean nothing to you, might as well get taken care of by something that you don't have to talk to, buy drinks for or work up some "game" to get to do its job. Best $150 I've spent in a long time, and you don't feel guilty after you have your way with it.

saucyboy2332 · 2019-09-23T04:40:25+00:00

Can some educated me on what is a PUA?

2019-09-23T04:48:53+00:00

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eduardkoopman · 2019-09-23T08:42:56+00:00

The next day, I sat down and really thought about it.I think I might be done with pump and dump. I just can't get a boner knowing that deep down these Thots are treacherous snakes.

A great read, and scientific results on the subject of: Decision making and being horny.
http://people.duke.edu/~dandan/webfiles/PapersPI/Sexual%20Arousal%20and%20Decision%20making.pdf

I always had to put in way more effort, to get laid. Because I rarely did/do nightlife stuff like going to bars, clubs, etc..So I always met and had to meet the women I fucked in my life time, in the day times. So, they had "shields up" (I'm also no Chad, just a normie), hoops to jump through, casting me for the beta bucks role, etc.. and other stupid shit.Because I also was sober, I often couldn't take it anymore when dating that way. I was often disgusted, by their morality. I could handle mismatching personality, but the immorality always got to me. Couldn't fuck them, it was turn off for me. Having this, did actually help me to not end up with big nutheads.

The way I dated, in the past (we are talking 9 years ago orso when I last dated (then entered LTR for like 5 years, and now 4 years monk mode by choice)).
That way of dating. It was much investment, time and shit to deal with. Totally not worth it, for role in the hay. My little deminished (35 now) sex drive, makes it really so now that I won't do that much shit for sex. In my horny teens/20's; the thirst made be drive to waste alot of time on this. The thirst, is real, I guess.

If I ever were to date again. I would still do it, the way I did it before. Because the night scene, random hookups with someone I barely know for like a few hours. At 1 point, there will be the bad case nutthead among them. To fuck my life up. With taking more time, at least there is some vetting, for avoiding the super crazy.

anubhav23 · 2019-09-23T08:56:48+00:00

Where did u learn this PUA STUFF? Please pass on some experiences and tips for us who doesn't have much experience in pump and dump.

mgtow_till_death · 2019-09-23T10:39:41+00:00

The moment i cum i instantly regret fooling myself once again to fuck some hambeast and now i have to wait it out until sunshine to kick her out

Stopped it overall. I cant even get good looking ones so its not a big loss, mate. Porn and cheap hookers is where im at and i feel absolutely great bro. Kickin it.

U-94 · 2019-09-23T11:54:23+00:00

Not enough alcohol. That will cure all those pesky higher functioning thoughts.

gu010206 · 2019-09-23T15:01:55+00:00

Easy, lube + custom made Fleshlight = postnut clarity.

JohnStrangways · 2019-09-24T06:59:07+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SV4Y_ensniY

Title	Losing desire to pump and dump
Author	bouldurer
Upvotes	106
Comments	67
Date	September 22, 2019 10:40 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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